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SteR said:Not really sure where I should ask this, but is it okay to wear a shirt with jeans/trainers.
What I mean is like a normal shirt, normal jeans and these style of shoes:
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or is that a fashion faux pas?
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What are you, a fag or something? Sorry, not fag, I meant shoe head.Those shoes are wack
Those look baller to me. I have a pair of white Sperry's like that, and a pair of red ones.Not really sure where I should ask this, but is it okay to wear a shirt with jeans/trainers.
What I mean is like a normal shirt, normal jeans and these style of shoes:
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or is that a fashion faux pas?
Joking with you, man. One of my closest friends is a sneaker head. He has a problem lolThose shoes might.be
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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So sneakers with jeans is a definite no? Even if they're something nice like the Adidas Ultraboost?Any flat sole sneaker along these lines are typically fine with jeans. Sketchers, old school converse...whatever. The fashion faux pas most people refer to are athletic sneakers with jeans, such as running or basket ball sneakers.
Short of minor things like that, you should go primarily go by proper fit and a look that makes YOU feel like you look good.
That said, I always try to avoid looking too pristine and crisp when dressing casually. If the clothes are fairly new and in good shape I’ll go with a slightly messier hair style. Or if the hair looks really good I’ll incorporate a shirt with a faded logo, or jeans that show a little wear and tear.
Too perfect is metrosexual and unmanly.
Those would look okay with slim-fitting jeans.So sneakers with jeans is a definite no? Even if they're something nice like the Adidas Ultraboost?