Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
SteR said:Not really sure where I should ask this, but is it okay to wear a shirt with jeans/trainers.
What I mean is like a normal shirt, normal jeans and these style of shoes:
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or is that a fashion faux pas?
What are you, a fag or something? Sorry, not fag, I meant shoe head.Those shoes are wack
Those look baller to me. I have a pair of white Sperry's like that, and a pair of red ones.Not really sure where I should ask this, but is it okay to wear a shirt with jeans/trainers.
What I mean is like a normal shirt, normal jeans and these style of shoes:
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or is that a fashion faux pas?
Joking with you, man. One of my closest friends is a sneaker head. He has a problem lolThose shoes might.be
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
So sneakers with jeans is a definite no? Even if they're something nice like the Adidas Ultraboost?Any flat sole sneaker along these lines are typically fine with jeans. Sketchers, old school converse...whatever. The fashion faux pas most people refer to are athletic sneakers with jeans, such as running or basket ball sneakers.
Short of minor things like that, you should go primarily go by proper fit and a look that makes YOU feel like you look good.
That said, I always try to avoid looking too pristine and crisp when dressing casually. If the clothes are fairly new and in good shape I’ll go with a slightly messier hair style. Or if the hair looks really good I’ll incorporate a shirt with a faded logo, or jeans that show a little wear and tear.
Too perfect is metrosexual and unmanly.
Those would look okay with slim-fitting jeans.So sneakers with jeans is a definite no? Even if they're something nice like the Adidas Ultraboost?