“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cleared it with the mods! A thread I’ve wanted to do for years. Post your real life picture let the community help fix your looks!(completely optiona)

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You are all definitely slayer material. Not sure how a lot of you are doing now in terms of game but man, hook you all up with a pro photographer that specializes on dating app pics and you can all have 100+ likes on the major apps within a week. We have a lot of handsome dudes on this forum (no homo).
Thanks m8. I don't necessarily agree though; it's about context/setting. If you're already good looking it can seem way too tryhard to get professional photos. What you really need is an interesting friend group with DSLR cameras with photos in cool, interesting, unique locations.




How to find one that isn’t a scam? I got professional pics years ago but they didn’t seem to work. I stayed a virgin that year
It's not just the photographs but the setting and context. Professional photos can be very insincere and don't tell a story. The story is what gives them the gina tingles.
 
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Is there a way to post pics so that they're still private in some way?
Maybe we could add some sort of password protection to that
 

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Is there a way to post pics so that they're still private in some way?
Maybe we could add some sort of password protection to that
there are websites that let you upload pics that expire in a set time, just search for temp image uploader or something. otherwise im guessing the mods can remove if you request it.

regardless, if use a phone, or any google/microsoft/apple product your data is probably already all out there anyway. if you're worried about photos, just know that reverse image searching is not what people think it is. i've searched all of my pics and none of them even come up, even with them on my instagram. most images don't seem to ever get indexed by google. hell the photo i've used in my google profile for like 5 years doesn't even turn up any results...
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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