"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cleared it with the mods! A thread I’ve wanted to do for years. Post your real life picture let the community help fix your looks!(completely optiona)

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@CollegeMan22 @SargeMaximus and @FlexpertHamilton

You are all definitely slayer material. Not sure how a lot of you are doing now in terms of game but man, hook you all up with a pro photographer that specializes on dating app pics and you can all have 100+ likes on the major apps within a week. We have a lot of handsome dudes on this forum (no homo).
Thanks m8. I don't necessarily agree though; it's about context/setting. If you're already good looking it can seem way too tryhard to get professional photos. What you really need is an interesting friend group with DSLR cameras with photos in cool, interesting, unique locations.




How to find one that isn’t a scam? I got professional pics years ago but they didn’t seem to work. I stayed a virgin that year
It's not just the photographs but the setting and context. Professional photos can be very insincere and don't tell a story. The story is what gives them the gina tingles.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is there a way to post pics so that they're still private in some way?
Maybe we could add some sort of password protection to that
 

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Is there a way to post pics so that they're still private in some way?
Maybe we could add some sort of password protection to that
there are websites that let you upload pics that expire in a set time, just search for temp image uploader or something. otherwise im guessing the mods can remove if you request it.

regardless, if use a phone, or any google/microsoft/apple product your data is probably already all out there anyway. if you're worried about photos, just know that reverse image searching is not what people think it is. i've searched all of my pics and none of them even come up, even with them on my instagram. most images don't seem to ever get indexed by google. hell the photo i've used in my google profile for like 5 years doesn't even turn up any results...
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hello everyone!

Below are some photos of my current life!
I've always been curious to know
a) what kind of vibe I give off, person people associate with me. Wheter I do seem DJ or a more mature man, or something else.
b) what kind of match can I aim for, which is the "playground" or "field" I could get great results on (like HB 6+ or 7+, or any visual example)
c) anything about your thoughts




I'd really be curious to hear from you!






ps: for example, If I do see someone, I can tell by the way He/She looks, what kind of career/profession could do for his/her life.
Faces speaks :)
 
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Hello everyone!

Below are some photos of my current life!
I've always been curious to know
a) what kind of vibe I give off, person people associate with me. Wheter I do seem DJ or a more mature man, or something else.
b) what kind of match can I aim for, which is the "playground" or "field" I could get great results on (like HB 6+ or 7+, or any visual example)
c) anything about your thoughts




I'd really be curious to hear from you!






ps: for example, If I do see someone, I can tell by the way He/She looks, what kind of career/profession could do for his/her life.
Faces speaks :)
bro you should be getting mad puss why are you posting on here so much. are italian women just stuck up bitches or something?

Also just a bit of feedback i think you should hit the gym you have a rather small frame.
 

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Thanks for your feedback.

What do you mean with / What are you basing you judgment on?
bro you should be getting mad puss
I'd love to hear about what kind of puss, like I do ask in b

are italian women just stuck up bitches or something?
Modern italian women, they are.. But it's not totally up to them, it's something in me too..


i think you should hit the gym you have a rather small frame
Did you saw the "physique" spoiler? There are 2 picture there with my phisique.
I do gym atm. My frame is small because I'm 165cm, so it could be height, but I'm mesomorph actually
 
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Hello everyone!

Below are some photos of my current life!
I've always been curious to know
a) what kind of vibe I give off, person people associate with me. Wheter I do seem DJ or a more mature man, or something else.
b) what kind of match can I aim for, which is the "playground" or "field" I could get great results on (like HB 6+ or 7+, or any visual example)
c) anything about your thoughts




I'd really be curious to hear from you!






ps: for example, If I do see someone, I can tell by the way He/She looks, what kind of career/profession could do for his/her life.
Faces speaks :)
You are attractive. But you appear harmless.
 

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You are attractive. But you appear harmless.
Thanks! This reply to "c".

Also,
You say I am attractive, so I wonder to which category of similar men you're actually putting me.

Also,
You say I do appear harmless.
I'd love to hear more about how to fix the harmless thing? (If that is only a visual perception)
Getting tattoed?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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