"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cleared it with the mods! A thread I’ve wanted to do for years. Post your real life picture let the community help fix your looks!(completely optiona)

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51 no f*cking way.. is this the results of a 35 year weight lifting career? Or did you find the fountain of youth?
Might have done the smart thing and gone on HRT.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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51 no f*cking way.. is this the results of a 35 year weight lifting career? Or did you find the fountain of youth?
Fountain of youth is fvcking. I named 12 porn superstars including mandigo, lex, pumper, pipes, north, anthony, mr marcus. Avg age 45. Sime of those guys are 65 and look like a fit 30 yo.
 

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Bro....I don't come here often but when I do I always see posts from you and your struggles with girls.

2 things you need to do and this is not even a question.

One. As has been said, you have to gain weight. 122 pounds??? WtF?? No girl is going to be interested in a guy that thin unless she has a very VERY specific type. As in a meth user fetish.

You need to be hitting the gym and forcing food into your mouth 24/7. My wife is a 5'5" Asian and you only weigh 7 more pounds than her.

The other thing you need is a complete hair and facial hair makeover. Grow a short to medium length beard. You have a very long chin and very small mouth. Very similar to Dan Bilzerian. Look at him without a beard and with one. Like night and day.

Grow your hair out on top and very short on the sides. A nazi cut.

I imagine your clothing style needs updating too but that is for another time,


Do those 2 things and your looks go up 3-4 points. Right now you look like a typical incel guy from central FL. And that isn't good.
 
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51 no f*cking way.. is this the results of a 35 year weight lifting career? Or did you find the fountain of youth?
Ahhh thanks bro.

Both. I do have good genes but also work out 5 days a week and play a lot of sports. So that all helps.

I also own my own CBD and supplement company and religiously take about 18 grams (not milligrams-grams) of Vit C a day along with 8 grams each of lysine and proline. That helps.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ahhh thanks bro.

Both. I do have good genes but also work out 5 days a week and play a lot of sports. So that all helps.

I also own my own CBD and supplement company and religiously take about 18 grams (not milligrams-grams) of Vit C a day along with 8 grams each of lysine and proline. That helps.
Might have done the smart thing and gone on HRT.
No. Only thing I have ever done is go on test for a 3 month cycle about a year ago but really didn't notice much difference so never did it again. The guy I got it from was ripped city and he kept wanting me to try so I did.

When I was younger I trained race horses for 25 years so I have used every steroid under the sun on the horses. Winstrol, Equipoise, Decca etc. So I have nothing against steroids. Just haven't really needed to use them.
 

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No. Only thing I have ever done is go on test for a 3 month cycle about a year ago but really didn't notice much difference so never did it again. The guy I got it from was ripped city and he kept wanting me to try so I did.

When I was younger I trained race horses for 25 years so I have used every steroid under the sun on the horses. Winstrol, Equipoise, Decca etc. So I have nothing against steroids. Just haven't really needed to use them.
BTW I used to post on here for years and years under my cordoncordon alias but didn't post on here for a couple of years and forgot my log in so had to change to this one.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey you don’t look 51 but do you feel 51? Like how is your recovery from workouts and you say you still play a lot of sports, has performance decreased?
Just in the last year or so. But part of that is because I am still working out as normal, playing other sports, and I have been bowling an average of 20-30 games a week or so the past 6 months instead of my normal 3-6 games.

I have my average up to 223 and have been bowling in 3 leagues and multiple regional pro tourneys here in the S Cal region (won one last week). As a result my right shoulder is killing me, I have pinched nerve in right arm that now always tingles, right hand and thumb ache all of the time, right knee feels like it has sandpaper in the joint, and I blew out my lower back 45 days ago where I could barely get out of bed for 3 days. Had to finally go get a shot for it and 3 sessions of accupuncture.

That being said, I will also add that CBD really really helps manage some of those aches and pains.

So to answer your question, yes I would say just in the last year I have really started to notice my age creep up on me. And it takes longer and longer to recover. That being said, I am bowling the best I ever have in my life. So go figure haha.

Also my lifts are all about the same weight as well.
 

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i dont feel 54
i feel 35, fvck like im 20 (but with 40yrs of experience)
probably why i do so good with much younger women

I think dating young hotties vs fat cows help us look and feel younger
in the game of fap vs cows, i pick fap every time
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bro....I don't come here often but when I do I always see posts from you and your struggles with girls.

2 things you need to do and this is not even a question.

One. As has been said, you have to gain weight. 122 pounds??? WtF?? No girl is going to be interested in a guy that thin unless she has a very VERY specific type. As in a meth user fetish.

You need to be hitting the gym and forcing food into your mouth 24/7. My wife is a 5'5" Asian and you only weigh 7 more pounds than her.

The other thing you need is a complete hair and facial hair makeover. Grow a short to medium length beard. You have a very long chin and very small mouth. Very similar to Dan Bilzerian. Look at him without a beard and with one. Like night and day.

Grow your hair out on top and very short on the sides. A nazi cut.

I imagine your clothing style needs updating too but that is for another time,


Do those 2 things and your looks go up 3-4 points. Right now you look like a typical incel guy from central FL. And that isn't good.
Very good advice there imo
 

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My biggest liability in dating has always been height and stature. I'm genetically short and skinny (5'7, 135 lbs pre-lifting). In these photos I'm 165 lbs.

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I've heard it's harder in US because people are so tall or obese

It's not a death sentence here in UK but still problematic

My friend is 6"1 and said he felt small in the US
 
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I've heard it's harder in US because people are so large or obese

It's not a death sentence here in UK but still problematic

My friend is 6"1 and said he felt small in the US
yes, lots of people are fat in the US. The women around here are big. Not only big bone but a lot of fatties. You see me on here a lot complaing about land whales.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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