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I've heard it's harder in US because people are so tall or obese

It's not a death sentence here in UK but still problematic

My friend is 6"1 and said he felt small in the US
It is. Especially among black people. We have much higher obesity rates. A lot of women tell me I’m really skinny even at the size I’ve posted. Can’t change my genetics. I refuse to eat like a pig.

I could date more petite women but most I end up with are at least 5’3-5’6 and they constantly remark about how little I am (even while I’m blowing their back out).

The interesting thing is men don’t give me shvt about size ever. People in the workplace often defer all decisions to me, and I’ve gotten two promotions in the last 5 years. A forceful personality helps but I really think physique on short men really makes a difference.
 

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Bro....I don't come here often but when I do I always see posts from you and your struggles with girls.

2 things you need to do and this is not even a question.

One. As has been said, you have to gain weight. 122 pounds??? WtF?? No girl is going to be interested in a guy that thin unless she has a very VERY specific type. As in a meth user fetish.

You need to be hitting the gym and forcing food into your mouth 24/7. My wife is a 5'5" Asian and you only weigh 7 more pounds than her.

The other thing you need is a complete hair and facial hair makeover. Grow a short to medium length beard. You have a very long chin and very small mouth. Very similar to Dan Bilzerian. Look at him without a beard and with one. Like night and day.

Grow your hair out on top and very short on the sides. A nazi cut.

I imagine your clothing style needs updating too but that is for another time,


Do those 2 things and your looks go up 3-4 points. Right now you look like a typical incel guy from central FL. And that isn't good.
Yea, I studied more pics of him. He's a damn chad!! It was also the way I was holding the phone in those pics as well. My chin isn't that long. When you mean Nazi cut like study the SS hair styles?
 

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I've heard it's harder in US because people are so large or obese

It's not a death sentence here in UK but still problematic

My friend is 6"1 and said he felt small in the US
It varies. When I am around hispanics or Asians I am always near the tallest guy in the room. For example my wife and I went to a concert near our hometown in S Cal last week and it was mainly hispanics and I felt like a giant.

Then last night we went to go see the Boogie Knights 70s band last night near Westlake Village (right by where Kobe was killed) and it was mainly whites and my wife and I both commented about how much taller everyone was. Im 6'1" and felt kind of small height wise. There were lots and lots of S Cal Milfs too who had to be 5'9" and taller. LOTS of them. And the men were all around my height or more. And most were age 35 and older. I know younger kids these days are even taller.
 

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if we all met up... slaying would commence and no pvssy will be left standing.

watch out ladies!
 

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It is. Especially among black people. We have much higher obesity rates. A lot of women tell me I’m really skinny even at the size I’ve posted. Can’t change my genetics. I refuse to eat like a pig.

I could date more petite women but most I end up with are at least 5’3-5’6 and they constantly remark about how little I am (even while I’m blowing their back out).

The interesting thing is men don’t give me shvt about size ever. People in the workplace often defer all decisions to me, and I’ve gotten two promotions in the last 5 years. A forceful personality helps but I really think physique on short men really makes a difference.
You really really have to go Asian these days imo haha. I used to post about it but since I moved to S Cal, where I met my wife who is Asian, even if I ever got divorced I would go right back to Asian. They just stay in better shape....for a longer period of time. Hardly any fatties or skin that looks 60 years old.

Here is a pic of my wife last night and another pic of her. She is 43.

Also the last one is a pic of my daughters mom who is 35. I think she was 33 in this pic.
 

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Yea, I studied more pics of him. He's a damn chad!! It was also the way I was holding the phone in those pics as well. My chin isn't that long. When you mean Nazi cut like study the SS hair styles?
Yes. Like this. I go with that cut as well with about a 3 day year old beard look. My hair is not super thick but it looks good (IMO) for guys that don't have super thick hair. Also the shorter sides make you look younger. Right now you have almost a bowl haircut.

Bro you are not that bad at all. You just need some tweaks. Grow your hair out. Get this cut. Keep a 1-2 week old beard. Gain LOTS of weight. You would be money.
 

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I met one SS bro here, he was having a tough time, stud of a man and a woman killed his confidence
he's back to slaying hard with grade AAA HB
That sure would be fun. I'd fear there wouldn't be enough hot chicks in one place for all of us though.
heh, true that. We need about 50 HB 20-35 and a MILF for @biggoal
Probably should choose a popular hotel resort (logistics) heh
 

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My word, every and anything I post is rigorously honest here in this forum. I'm this honest at work too, so if someone recognises me from some site or shop I've worked at, so be it and a 'how r ya doing' to him.

You guys are all killing it. Great job on the pursuit of your purposes. I get confidence and bursts of energy each time I read posts.


Please don't ask me why I'm here or why I identify with red pill rationale.
What I can explain is this,
I emulate men and adore them....as a tomboy; but I'm currently wgtow(yes, copycatting the mgtows-thanks to them for their strong examples) with lingering oneitis for ------ who wouldn't get a vasectomy last year(last time I was a member here)

I feel like this forum material is keeping me sane. It explains a lot of my former naivete in dating and relationships and miscommunicated expectations and unclear boundaries.
I am interested in studying feminine bloggers/youtubers in addition to studying game.

Yin and yang. Yang and yin.

I'm definitely not like the woman sitting at the deli counter in Paul Fusill's book 'class' but I currently couldn't tell you for sure, for sure which secks orientation I am.
I can tell you for certain, that I can make women giggle and do things for me in the service industry like how I see men charm them and I feel only recognition when I see a guy practicing game.

I got into this walking track(glass reflection body pic) for free today by smiling sweetly at buddy's wife(don't have my membership yet-tight budget)
I'm currently doing 10,000 steps plus a day-I wear my 15 year old pedometer to measure these-and see my new dietitian next week, one on one.
Emotional eating/bulimia issue.
Borderline bpd(if there's such a thing); probably narcissism.
Been overweight now since 2006, working at the steel mill back home. That was the time I started quitting smoking.
Non smoker now for 15 months minus 1 month over xmas, so really 1 1/2 months smokefree again.

Face pic: I have minimal girlie skills in applying makeup, but I'm slowly learning.

I swear I can't get slimmer faster than this. 5'5; cw 217; gw 145.
Its brutal not having the cigarettes for stress relief.
Unless I go hard and start powerlifting again.
 

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Non smoker now for 15 months minus 1 month over xmas, so really 1 1/2 months smokefree again.
congrats

You guys are all killing it. Great job on the pursuit of your purposes. I get confidence and bursts of energy each time I read posts.

Please don't ask me why I'm here or why I identify with red pill rationale.
Thank you and welcome to SS
 

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You really really have to go Asian these days imo haha. I used to post about it but since I moved to S Cal, where I met my wife who is Asian, even if I ever got divorced I would go right back to Asian. They just stay in better shape....for a longer period of time. Hardly any fatties or skin that looks 60 years old.

Here is a pic of my wife last night and another pic of her. She is 43.

Also the last one is a pic of my daughters mom who is 35. I think she was 33 in this pic.
The last pic!! I'd like to um......

I tried mrwoods style of message and got a reply from a 44yr old hb 7.5 milf!!
 

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You really really have to go Asian these days imo haha. I used to post about it but since I moved to S Cal, where I met my wife who is Asian, even if I ever got divorced I would go right back to Asian. They just stay in better shape....for a longer period of time. Hardly any fatties or skin that looks 60 years old.

Here is a pic of my wife last night and another pic of her. She is 43.

Also the last one is a pic of my daughters mom who is 35. I think she was 33 in this pic.
Hook Big goal up with your ex in the last pic!!
 

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Too many to post about but a lot of good looking guys post here.

No homers.
This is true. It's hard to imagine any of these guys having issues finding decent women, but of course the pickins' for quality are mighty slim. What an insane world we live in!
 

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This is true. It's hard to imagine any of these guys having issues finding decent women, but of course the pickins' for quality are mighty slim. What an insane world we live in!
I honestly thought we were going to see people post and then be able to say “aha! That’s why you have women problems!” But no, everyone here is above average looks seems like.
 

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i dont feel 54
i feel 35, fvck like im 20 (but with 40yrs of experience)
probably why i do so good with much younger women

I think dating young hotties vs fat cows help us look and feel younger
in the game of fap vs cows, i pick fap every time
Don't let them convince you your old. I just did another post that i discovered out of 12 of the top guys in porn the avg age was 44, Peter North is 63 looks like a fit 30 ish guy.
 
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