"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
clavicular is the next to implode:)
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Lol...in Massachusetts of all places? I'm surprise it's not Miami, Paris or Los Angeles....lol haha..if this dude is as big as he says he is, he'd have no problems getting with the women he wants. Of course like the good ole saying by Charlie Sheen, ' I pay them to leave'....he was probably tired of the games and wanted an easy, no effort lay which may backfire.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
never liked him makes what we do here sound simple !
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Not a fan of this fella, nonetheless I can't help but note:
Men deemed "controversial" are getting charged with this particular crime with shocking frequency these days, based solely on an accusation. What's more than likely:
-All these men are predators
Or
-It's become a fad among law enforcement to bust countercultural figures on flimsy accusations, same way both local and federal 5-0 were targeting everyone deemed "revolutionary" during Nixon's reign
I suspect the latter
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agreed!!
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Society, especially feminist society, doesn't care about that.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.