"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Classy Girl vs. Sex Pot

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This one is always been tough for me to decide on. An attractive, classy girl who will represent you well when you are together versus the super-hot girl who oozes sexuality. I've been with both for the most part and it doesn't make this any easier to decide on.

Perhaps this is better communicated with an example using celebs. Would you rather be with a girl like Natalie Portman, who is classy and smart, or Jessica Alba or Jessica Biel - women who just run wild with sexual vibes?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This one is always been tough for me to decide on. An attractive, classy girl who will represent you well when you are together versus the super-hot girl who oozes sexuality. I've been with both for the most part and it doesn't make this any easier to decide on.

Perhaps this is better communicated with an example using celebs. Would you rather be with a girl like Natalie Portman, who is classy and smart, or Jessica Alba or Jessica Biel - women who just run wild with sexual vibes?
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For the most part I prefer classy. I love a girl you can proudly bring home to your parents.
 
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CURRENT SITUATION <age, high salary etc>: S3x pot
IN 5 YEARS <when im ready to settle>: classy chic that represents me well..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Would you rather be with a hor or a non hor is your question. Figure out which you would like to be with.

Edit: To add in all seriousness. Who has a better personality. Which one is like a potential friend and girlfriend combined in one. Don't just go for the one who looks hot. Look beneath the beauty and the best one for you!!
 
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Neither Jessica (Biel or Alba) strikes me as "sex pot".

Yeah, they are "hot", but they both seem a little too together, too cleaned up. Especially Alba, she looks like she'd be terrible in bed.

I bet ya Natalie is better than either one of 'em in the sack. That girl knows what she wants, and speaks up.

Oh man, I wish I could link to that "Natalie Portman rap" digital short from SNL a couple of years ago.
 
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Neither Jessica (Biel or Alba) strikes me as "sex pot".

Yeah, they are "hot", but they both seem a little too together, too cleaned up. Especially Alba, she looks like she'd be terrible in bed.

I bet ya Natalie is better than either one of 'em in the sack. That girl knows what she wants, and speaks up.

Oh man, I wish I could link to that "Natalie Portman rap" digital short from SNL a couple of years ago.
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Well, Alba and Biel were just examples. If they do not fit your ideal "sex pot" than just insert someone who does.

Yes, that Portman SNL digital short was very funny. "Suck my d###!" I was dying when she says that.
 
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if i brought jessica alba home my dad would high five me...
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lol :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The olly girls would be two good examples of sex pots
 
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Within every women lies a Classy Girl and a Sex Pot... She will show her different sides to different men at different times for different reasons...
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That's a good point. I've known girls who just need some encouragement to get the sex pot out of them.
 
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CURRENT SITUATION <age, high salary etc>: S3x pot
IN 5 YEARS <when im ready to settle>: classy chic that represents me well..
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I'm not sure if formulas are best to be brought into this situation.
 
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Class all the way, though classy girls who are secret freaks are more my speed...
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Class all the way, though classy girls who are secret freaks are more my speed...
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I think that is the dream of every man alive. :up:
 
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Why not have both? Is that too much too ask? Just find a gurl who is classy and ooze sexuality......
 
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Kwothe said:
Why not have both? Is that too much too ask? Just find a gurl who is classy and ooze sexuality......
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Yeah like the innocent sweet girl!
 
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a classy girl treats herself and others with respect. all details are taken care of be it her appearance, her money, her moral conduct, consciousness etc
a classy girl always know what she wants in life and does not give in to temptation easily. she is smart enough to know that one mistake can ruin her life and her standing in the society.
a classy girl goes places and know from early age she is going to be very succesful in life even without the daddy's help or boyfriend's money.
a classy girl ALWAYS win in the end :)
 
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slickaz said:
CURRENT SITUATION <age, high salary etc>: S3x pot
IN 5 YEARS <when im ready to settle>: classy chic that represents me well..
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oh you mean a retired sex pot??? lol.. well women are staying in the game up into their 40s now so you may need to find a nice polite 60 year old since most other women are still sexpots
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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