Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Classy Girl vs. Sex Pot

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This one is always been tough for me to decide on. An attractive, classy girl who will represent you well when you are together versus the super-hot girl who oozes sexuality. I've been with both for the most part and it doesn't make this any easier to decide on.

Perhaps this is better communicated with an example using celebs. Would you rather be with a girl like Natalie Portman, who is classy and smart, or Jessica Alba or Jessica Biel - women who just run wild with sexual vibes?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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toddlips said:
This one is always been tough for me to decide on. An attractive, classy girl who will represent you well when you are together versus the super-hot girl who oozes sexuality. I've been with both for the most part and it doesn't make this any easier to decide on.

Perhaps this is better communicated with an example using celebs. Would you rather be with a girl like Natalie Portman, who is classy and smart, or Jessica Alba or Jessica Biel - women who just run wild with sexual vibes?
For the most part I prefer classy. I love a girl you can proudly bring home to your parents.
 

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CURRENT SITUATION <age, high salary etc>: S3x pot
IN 5 YEARS <when im ready to settle>: classy chic that represents me well..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Would you rather be with a hor or a non hor is your question. Figure out which you would like to be with.

Edit: To add in all seriousness. Who has a better personality. Which one is like a potential friend and girlfriend combined in one. Don't just go for the one who looks hot. Look beneath the beauty and the best one for you!!
 

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Neither Jessica (Biel or Alba) strikes me as "sex pot".

Yeah, they are "hot", but they both seem a little too together, too cleaned up. Especially Alba, she looks like she'd be terrible in bed.

I bet ya Natalie is better than either one of 'em in the sack. That girl knows what she wants, and speaks up.

Oh man, I wish I could link to that "Natalie Portman rap" digital short from SNL a couple of years ago.
 

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realsmoothie said:
Neither Jessica (Biel or Alba) strikes me as "sex pot".

Yeah, they are "hot", but they both seem a little too together, too cleaned up. Especially Alba, she looks like she'd be terrible in bed.

I bet ya Natalie is better than either one of 'em in the sack. That girl knows what she wants, and speaks up.

Oh man, I wish I could link to that "Natalie Portman rap" digital short from SNL a couple of years ago.
Well, Alba and Biel were just examples. If they do not fit your ideal "sex pot" than just insert someone who does.

Yes, that Portman SNL digital short was very funny. "Suck my d###!" I was dying when she says that.
 

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scribblec said:
if i brought jessica alba home my dad would high five me...
lol :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The olly girls would be two good examples of sex pots
 

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DonGorgon said:
Within every women lies a Classy Girl and a Sex Pot... She will show her different sides to different men at different times for different reasons...
That's a good point. I've known girls who just need some encouragement to get the sex pot out of them.
 

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slickaz said:
CURRENT SITUATION <age, high salary etc>: S3x pot
IN 5 YEARS <when im ready to settle>: classy chic that represents me well..
I'm not sure if formulas are best to be brought into this situation.
 

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Class all the way, though classy girls who are secret freaks are more my speed...
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MascaraSnake said:
Class all the way, though classy girls who are secret freaks are more my speed...
I think that is the dream of every man alive. :up:
 

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Why not have both? Is that too much too ask? Just find a gurl who is classy and ooze sexuality......
 

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Kwothe said:
Why not have both? Is that too much too ask? Just find a gurl who is classy and ooze sexuality......
Yeah like the innocent sweet girl!
 

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a classy girl treats herself and others with respect. all details are taken care of be it her appearance, her money, her moral conduct, consciousness etc
a classy girl always know what she wants in life and does not give in to temptation easily. she is smart enough to know that one mistake can ruin her life and her standing in the society.
a classy girl goes places and know from early age she is going to be very succesful in life even without the daddy's help or boyfriend's money.
a classy girl ALWAYS win in the end :)
 

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slickaz said:
CURRENT SITUATION <age, high salary etc>: S3x pot
IN 5 YEARS <when im ready to settle>: classy chic that represents me well..
oh you mean a retired sex pot??? lol.. well women are staying in the game up into their 40s now so you may need to find a nice polite 60 year old since most other women are still sexpots
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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