"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Classy Girl vs. Sex Pot

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This one is always been tough for me to decide on. An attractive, classy girl who will represent you well when you are together versus the super-hot girl who oozes sexuality. I've been with both for the most part and it doesn't make this any easier to decide on.

Perhaps this is better communicated with an example using celebs. Would you rather be with a girl like Natalie Portman, who is classy and smart, or Jessica Alba or Jessica Biel - women who just run wild with sexual vibes?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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toddlips said:
This one is always been tough for me to decide on. An attractive, classy girl who will represent you well when you are together versus the super-hot girl who oozes sexuality. I've been with both for the most part and it doesn't make this any easier to decide on.

Perhaps this is better communicated with an example using celebs. Would you rather be with a girl like Natalie Portman, who is classy and smart, or Jessica Alba or Jessica Biel - women who just run wild with sexual vibes?
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For the most part I prefer classy. I love a girl you can proudly bring home to your parents.
 
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CURRENT SITUATION <age, high salary etc>: S3x pot
IN 5 YEARS <when im ready to settle>: classy chic that represents me well..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Would you rather be with a hor or a non hor is your question. Figure out which you would like to be with.

Edit: To add in all seriousness. Who has a better personality. Which one is like a potential friend and girlfriend combined in one. Don't just go for the one who looks hot. Look beneath the beauty and the best one for you!!
 
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Neither Jessica (Biel or Alba) strikes me as "sex pot".

Yeah, they are "hot", but they both seem a little too together, too cleaned up. Especially Alba, she looks like she'd be terrible in bed.

I bet ya Natalie is better than either one of 'em in the sack. That girl knows what she wants, and speaks up.

Oh man, I wish I could link to that "Natalie Portman rap" digital short from SNL a couple of years ago.
 
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realsmoothie said:
Neither Jessica (Biel or Alba) strikes me as "sex pot".

Yeah, they are "hot", but they both seem a little too together, too cleaned up. Especially Alba, she looks like she'd be terrible in bed.

I bet ya Natalie is better than either one of 'em in the sack. That girl knows what she wants, and speaks up.

Oh man, I wish I could link to that "Natalie Portman rap" digital short from SNL a couple of years ago.
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Well, Alba and Biel were just examples. If they do not fit your ideal "sex pot" than just insert someone who does.

Yes, that Portman SNL digital short was very funny. "Suck my d###!" I was dying when she says that.
 
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if i brought jessica alba home my dad would high five me...
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lol :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The olly girls would be two good examples of sex pots
 
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DonGorgon said:
Within every women lies a Classy Girl and a Sex Pot... She will show her different sides to different men at different times for different reasons...
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That's a good point. I've known girls who just need some encouragement to get the sex pot out of them.
 
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CURRENT SITUATION <age, high salary etc>: S3x pot
IN 5 YEARS <when im ready to settle>: classy chic that represents me well..
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I'm not sure if formulas are best to be brought into this situation.
 
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Class all the way, though classy girls who are secret freaks are more my speed...
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MascaraSnake said:
Class all the way, though classy girls who are secret freaks are more my speed...
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I think that is the dream of every man alive. :up:
 
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Why not have both? Is that too much too ask? Just find a gurl who is classy and ooze sexuality......
 
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Kwothe said:
Why not have both? Is that too much too ask? Just find a gurl who is classy and ooze sexuality......
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Yeah like the innocent sweet girl!
 
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a classy girl treats herself and others with respect. all details are taken care of be it her appearance, her money, her moral conduct, consciousness etc
a classy girl always know what she wants in life and does not give in to temptation easily. she is smart enough to know that one mistake can ruin her life and her standing in the society.
a classy girl goes places and know from early age she is going to be very succesful in life even without the daddy's help or boyfriend's money.
a classy girl ALWAYS win in the end :)
 
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slickaz said:
CURRENT SITUATION <age, high salary etc>: S3x pot
IN 5 YEARS <when im ready to settle>: classy chic that represents me well..
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oh you mean a retired sex pot??? lol.. well women are staying in the game up into their 40s now so you may need to find a nice polite 60 year old since most other women are still sexpots
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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