"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Classy Girl vs. Sex Pot

DonJuan11

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toddlips said:
This one is always been tough for me to decide on. An attractive, classy girl who will represent you well when you are together versus the super-hot girl who oozes sexuality. I've been with both for the most part and it doesn't make this any easier to decide on.

Perhaps this is better communicated with an example using celebs. Would you rather be with a girl like Natalie Portman, who is classy and smart, or Jessica Alba or Jessica Biel - women who just run wild with sexual vibes?
Why are you asking us? Is it going to change your mind who you pick?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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toddlips

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DonJuan11 said:
Why are you asking us? Is it going to change your mind who you pick?
Because I continually find myself stressing over what girl makes a better match for me. I just thought I would throw it out there and see what my sosuave bros have to say about it.
 

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I would have to say I would want a girl that was both. These are the girls I call closet freaks. They require a little work to break down the barriers but once you do you have unleashed a monster. You can take them anywhere and not worry but once you get them behind close doors.:moon:
 

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EWJ said:
I would have to say I would want a girl that was both. These are the girls I call closet freaks. They require a little work to break down the barriers but once you do you have unleashed a monster. You can take them anywhere and not worry but once you get them behind close doors.:moon:
Of course that is ideal, but it is REALLY hard to determine which girl will end up that way on a cold approach. You know, bro?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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