CJs cold approach journal

[Cheeky_James]

How to have a normal conversation with people? You just talk with the objective if finding common ground, build familiarity, and get to know them. For example, ask how they know each other, build on whatever comes up, share stories, joke around, and find similar interests. If the conversation becomes more personal and flirtatious, things can progress from there.

As with everything, life is too short, and you cannot seduce everyone. If the women are open to you and there's mutual interest, things can progress naturally. If not, move on.

dude I gave you the scenario
And desrcribed the 2 women.
It’s 12am when you approach:
How exactly do you go about picking them up and what exactly do you say?
Do you ask them what their favorite colour is or what..
Have a “just have a normal conversation” isn’t much of an answer. What does “normal” convo with 2 hot b1tches on a Saturday night at a bar at 12am look like for you.. in detail pls.

 

[Clockwerk50]

dude I gave you the scenario
And desrcribed the 2 women.
It’s 12am when you approach:
How exactly do you go about picking them up and what exactly do you say?
Do you ask them what their favorite colour is or what..
Have a “just have a normal conversation” isn’t much of an answer. What does “normal” convo with 2 hot b1tches on a Saturday night at a bar at 12am look like for you.. in detail pls.

You are trying to force me into giving you a scripted routine, which is exactly what I’m critiquing you for.

Maybe slow down and realize that not every interaction needs to follow a predetermined sequence. Read the situation, use your social skills, and adapt accordingly.

 

[Cheeky_James]

You are trying to force me into giving you a scripted routine, which is exactly what I’m critiquing you for.

Maybe slow down and realize that not every interaction needs to follow a predetermined sequence. Read the situation, use your social skills, and adapt accordingly.

no. I am not actually.
Btw. How many girls would you estimate you’ve picked up from bars and clubs.? Do you have any credentials ..? Serious question,
Why do you think you can give advice to me?

 

[Clockwerk50]

no. I am not actually.
Btw. How many girls would you estimate you’ve picked up from bars and clubs.? Do you have any credentials ..? Serious question,
Why do you think you can give advice to me?

Look, you asked how I’d approach the situation, and I’ve explained my approach. You’re free to disagree with it. However, you’re overcomplicating a social interaction, and there is enough evidence here to suggest that your social skills could use some work.

 

[Cheeky_James]

Look, you asked how I’d approach the situation, and I’ve explained my approach. You’re free to disagree with it. However, you’re overcomplicating a social interaction, and there is enough evidence here to suggest that your social skills could use some work.

I appreciate your concern, but I can handle it.
Thanks for sharing. I don’t want to talk about it anymore with you now.

 

[Cheeky_James]

This was a funny old website

funny-cos-it’s-true stuff.
Great pics.

January 2005 – Hot Chicks with Douchebags

hotchickswithdouchebags.com

 

[Cheeky_James]

Update and date report !

so I had a impromptu lunchtime date today with a chick I matched on Hinge on Sunday I think (just before I got banned) luckily she’d given me her number and wed moved off the app.

A blonde blue eyes and her first profile pic was her in a bikini with a massive set of thunder cannon t1ts that took up half the photo

she is my age bracket so id call her a GlamourMILF.
A Stiflers Mom type from the movie American Pie.
Which are some of my favorite types.
Blonde big t1ts and ditzy , but heaps of fun.

this was a very straightforward and short online exchange, which was pretty funny. Great quick fire banter txts we exchanged Sunday and Monday with lots of innuendo and intent shown my side.

It was funny as I was thinking on Monday I was smooth AF and my game was fire .
But on reflection, when I reviewed it , it just proved an old maxim that says ;

“If a woman likes you, she will make it easy for you”

she actually made it pretty easy for me. and she sparked most of the banter , I just followed , showed lotsa intent and approval of her and pushed a bit for the date today. (wed)

the date went 2 hours we had a few drinks and a few hot make outs . I didn’t try to pull as there was a 2hr limit. But she would have probably been up for it. But the thing was . She was so funny and her stories so interesting the time flew by.

plus she had the most awesome rack and had dressed super low cut on top to show them off.

much innuendo came from me about her epic cans. And she seemed super keen on our parting . We pretty much agreed on it anyway on the date so happy days and looking forward to date 2 .

so a night and day difference of type of date vs the last 2 I went on. She’s a bit older than those 2 and open to casual so that explains it simply I guess. But I was relieved tbh.

 

[Cheeky_James]

jumped on FEELD the last few days and got a burst of likes and some matches .

Including one chick I have seen on this app previously back in December and whom I saw IRL on a night out around Xmas. She is a very sexy brunette MiLF. I watched a lot of guys hit on her that night. And was thinking about her for days afterwards back then, very very sexy dark Greek -background looking woman.

got a match w her yesterday (whoop!) and after some quick assertive action-man texting set up a date for tmrw evening!!

OH yeah

I hope this one goes well now and she feels the chemistry in the flesh….as I REALLY wanna fvck this ch1ck she’s sexy AF , for an older bird… wouldnt mind a few goes on it actually
I’d be trying for as many as possible w this one!

I’ll be more than happy to just get close to her anyway.
Hopefully she dresses up sexy style for CJ tmrw…

woo woo!

 

[Cheeky_James]

Update!
Just had the date.
Another dud.
That’s 3 duds out of 4 dates now. I had a suspicion it would be tbh. I saw this chick getting a LOT of attention on a night out a long time ago. And recall her old bio mentioning younger men.

Date went 25 mins and it seemed to be ok, but she was talking a LOT telling me stores . But the stories featured sexual stuff so I was thinking it was all rosy. Haha!
then 20 mins in. as I was escalating touches on her,…bang no go . Denied .
(I should have seen this coming. her body language had changed into a “curled up” pose as we were sitting on a bench side by side. Her arms around her knees at that point, stupid me I should have noticed this as it was obvious. But I was a bit zapped form the sunshine today and spending the arvo at an outside swimming pool getting too much of it.)
And before this she was giving me nice sexy Eye contact and seemed fine w me breaking the touch barrier w her . ?! Grrrrr!

Anyway on my more forward touchy sexual escalation on her thighs and shoulder/ arm she called it -and told me “no spark was present for her, sorry she’s looking for a certain kind of spark blah blah.blah” The Dear John speech

I was a little shaken as I’d not spotted the signals .

but recovered quickly and said “ah no bother no worries “ etc . Next bit was funny tho, as I had just bought a fresh margarita for myself . And just had a lil sip at that point. I said next “ that’s fine you can go if you want “ she replied “ no no im happy to stay! I’m enjoying your company” at which point I repeated she can leave etc . Her “ oh so would you prefer I leave?” Me - “ yep”

After this she quickly and kinda awkwardly scooted off. I guess I had dismissed her bluntly.
Ah well. No point hanging around if we’re not fvcking tbh. What’s the point?

So I’ve made a new rule to myself to ‘ call it early’ w chicks on future dates and ask them indirectly point blank after 10-15 mins if they feel any chemistry. If it’s a no , finish drink and bail. Fvck hanging around waiting for it later and spunking money on drinks for ‘company’. lol.

At least this was shorter than the last 2 duds, which were 2 hours and 1 hour respectively,

Hopefully the blonde Stiflers Mom w the thunder cannon tits is still keen on me next week….