CJs cold approach journal

[Cheeky_James]

How to have a normal conversation with people? You just talk with the objective if finding common ground, build familiarity, and get to know them. For example, ask how they know each other, build on whatever comes up, share stories, joke around, and find similar interests. If the conversation becomes more personal and flirtatious, things can progress from there.

As with everything, life is too short, and you cannot seduce everyone. If the women are open to you and there's mutual interest, things can progress naturally. If not, move on.

dude I gave you the scenario
And desrcribed the 2 women.
It’s 12am when you approach:
How exactly do you go about picking them up and what exactly do you say?
Do you ask them what their favorite colour is or what..
Have a “just have a normal conversation” isn’t much of an answer. What does “normal” convo with 2 hot b1tches on a Saturday night at a bar at 12am look like for you.. in detail pls.

 

[Clockwerk50]

dude I gave you the scenario
And desrcribed the 2 women.
It’s 12am when you approach:
How exactly do you go about picking them up and what exactly do you say?
Do you ask them what their favorite colour is or what..
Have a “just have a normal conversation” isn’t much of an answer. What does “normal” convo with 2 hot b1tches on a Saturday night at a bar at 12am look like for you.. in detail pls.

You are trying to force me into giving you a scripted routine, which is exactly what I’m critiquing you for.

Maybe slow down and realize that not every interaction needs to follow a predetermined sequence. Read the situation, use your social skills, and adapt accordingly.

 

[Cheeky_James]

You are trying to force me into giving you a scripted routine, which is exactly what I’m critiquing you for.

Maybe slow down and realize that not every interaction needs to follow a predetermined sequence. Read the situation, use your social skills, and adapt accordingly.

no. I am not actually.
Btw. How many girls would you estimate you’ve picked up from bars and clubs.? Do you have any credentials ..? Serious question,
Why do you think you can give advice to me?

 

[Clockwerk50]

no. I am not actually.
Btw. How many girls would you estimate you’ve picked up from bars and clubs.? Do you have any credentials ..? Serious question,
Why do you think you can give advice to me?

Look, you asked how I’d approach the situation, and I’ve explained my approach. You’re free to disagree with it. However, you’re overcomplicating a social interaction, and there is enough evidence here to suggest that your social skills could use some work.

 

[Cheeky_James]

Look, you asked how I’d approach the situation, and I’ve explained my approach. You’re free to disagree with it. However, you’re overcomplicating a social interaction, and there is enough evidence here to suggest that your social skills could use some work.

I appreciate your concern, but I can handle it.
Thanks for sharing. I don’t want to talk about it anymore with you now.

 

[Cheeky_James]

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funny-cos-it’s-true stuff.
Great pics.

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