CJs cold approach journal

[Cheeky_James]

How to have a normal conversation with people? You just talk with the objective if finding common ground, build familiarity, and get to know them. For example, ask how they know each other, build on whatever comes up, share stories, joke around, and find similar interests. If the conversation becomes more personal and flirtatious, things can progress from there.

As with everything, life is too short, and you cannot seduce everyone. If the women are open to you and there's mutual interest, things can progress naturally. If not, move on.

dude I gave you the scenario
And desrcribed the 2 women.
It’s 12am when you approach:
How exactly do you go about picking them up and what exactly do you say?
Do you ask them what their favorite colour is or what..
Have a “just have a normal conversation” isn’t much of an answer. What does “normal” convo with 2 hot b1tches on a Saturday night at a bar at 12am look like for you.. in detail pls.

 

[Clockwerk50]

dude I gave you the scenario
And desrcribed the 2 women.
It’s 12am when you approach:
How exactly do you go about picking them up and what exactly do you say?
Do you ask them what their favorite colour is or what..
Have a “just have a normal conversation” isn’t much of an answer. What does “normal” convo with 2 hot b1tches on a Saturday night at a bar at 12am look like for you.. in detail pls.

You are trying to force me into giving you a scripted routine, which is exactly what I’m critiquing you for.

Maybe slow down and realize that not every interaction needs to follow a predetermined sequence. Read the situation, use your social skills, and adapt accordingly.

 

[Cheeky_James]

You are trying to force me into giving you a scripted routine, which is exactly what I’m critiquing you for.

Maybe slow down and realize that not every interaction needs to follow a predetermined sequence. Read the situation, use your social skills, and adapt accordingly.

no. I am not actually.
Btw. How many girls would you estimate you’ve picked up from bars and clubs.? Do you have any credentials ..? Serious question,
Why do you think you can give advice to me?

 

[Clockwerk50]

no. I am not actually.
Btw. How many girls would you estimate you’ve picked up from bars and clubs.? Do you have any credentials ..? Serious question,
Why do you think you can give advice to me?

Look, you asked how I’d approach the situation, and I’ve explained my approach. You’re free to disagree with it. However, you’re overcomplicating a social interaction, and there is enough evidence here to suggest that your social skills could use some work.

 

[Cheeky_James]

Look, you asked how I’d approach the situation, and I’ve explained my approach. You’re free to disagree with it. However, you’re overcomplicating a social interaction, and there is enough evidence here to suggest that your social skills could use some work.

I appreciate your concern, but I can handle it.
Thanks for sharing. I don’t want to talk about it anymore with you now.

 

[Cheeky_James]

This was a funny old website

funny-cos-it’s-true stuff.
Great pics.

January 2005 – Hot Chicks with Douchebags

hotchickswithdouchebags.com

 

[Cheeky_James]

Update and date report !

so I had a impromptu lunchtime date today with a chick I matched on Hinge on Sunday I think (just before I got banned) luckily she’d given me her number and wed moved off the app.

A blonde blue eyes and her first profile pic was her in a bikini with a massive set of thunder cannon t1ts that took up half the photo

she is my age bracket so id call her a GlamourMILF.
A Stiflers Mom type from the movie American Pie.
Which are some of my favorite types.
Blonde big t1ts and ditzy , but heaps of fun.

this was a very straightforward and short online exchange, which was pretty funny. Great quick fire banter txts we exchanged Sunday and Monday with lots of innuendo and intent shown my side.

It was funny as I was thinking on Monday I was smooth AF and my game was fire .
But on reflection, when I reviewed it , it just proved an old maxim that says ;

“If a woman likes you, she will make it easy for you”

she actually made it pretty easy for me. and she sparked most of the banter , I just followed , showed lotsa intent and approval of her and pushed a bit for the date today. (wed)

the date went 2 hours we had a few drinks and a few hot make outs . I didn’t try to pull as there was a 2hr limit. But she would have probably been up for it. But the thing was . She was so funny and her stories so interesting the time flew by.

plus she had the most awesome rack and had dressed super low cut on top to show them off.

much innuendo came from me about her epic cans. And she seemed super keen on our parting . We pretty much agreed on it anyway on the date so happy days and looking forward to date 2 .

so a night and day difference of type of date vs the last 2 I went on. She’s a bit older than those 2 and open to casual so that explains it simply I guess. But I was relieved tbh.