CJs cold approach journal

[Cheeky_James]

Journal entry 1

after 2 years of mostly getting laid via online dating, I have realised now in retrospect , the juice is definitely not worth the squeeze.

God damn , did I log an insane amount of hours on Hinge , Feeld and the rest .. Sheeit.
sure I got laid a fair bit , but these apps just pay out at random guys; the majority of the chats and effort trying to ‘Game ‘ or connect w women are a total waste.

**** I could’ve completed a degree with that time or picked up some new hobbies. Or just paid for sex,
And my social skills have suffered spending so much time on my phone ..1000%

anyway; whinge over.

So Ive decided to get back out on the streets and try my hand at cold approaching again.
Like the good old days.
and I am starting again now from a place of very high approach anxiety and confusion, having spent the last 2-3 years over consuming PUA /RP theory.
Each time I’ve gone out to do CA in these years I noticed how tense /stressed ive been and also how overloaded with different info my brain is.

TMI and analysis paralysis is real.

Ianyway so I’ve realsied I need to (a) small chunk and (b) get practicing so went out on Friday for a day game session for 3 hours in the cbd . and back on it today again .

this is mainly just for my own recording of thoughts and conversations and meeting women (and just people)

Stay tuned for progress updates.

 

[Cheeky_James]

Friday CBD
So I drive to the city.. and sheeit if Ive totally forgotten how the city is now . It’s absolutely terming with Asians. They are everywhere!!
It’s like Beijing here downtown. 50:1 ratio. Jeezos.

And the city is so young! Everyone looks like teenagers. Fvck! This is a fail already.

Anyway, so after the intial shock I walk to the centrql Library park where I recall some PUa dudes doing CA way back in the day. I see a few who may be , but they are solo and just walking through maybe and super young.

I then go to the super mall, which used to be the other main spot of the Day Gamers.(.I’d met a coach guy there once so was hoping to spot him there and chat. )
Can’t see anyone there. just very young Asian folks and some others, but all way young.
I go upstairs to a bar ,my old pickup spot .. it is dead AF. I recall some memories . And also realise that was so long ago. Dang.

I end up at Starbucks charging my phone and vape, I scope out the joint inside. It’s just too young. And really I do not see any attractive ones either (for me).
I end up outside drinking coffee and vaping ,just watching all the various types walk by,
There are homeless people and weirdos and junkies…lots of anime dressed asian chicks,
2 disabled chicks with purple and blue hair lolloped past.. some cool suavely dressed foreign dudes…And also multiple hot white blonde Beckies (mmm! ) ..but every single one of them is with a dude that looks to be her BF , a Chad guy , who is at least 6-12 inches taller than Becky,

Danggg.
Reality check for me .

I see some woman in my age range oh a bench next to me rolling a ciggie…she notices me.

So I prepare to finally do my first approach,,,

to be continued ..!

 

[Cheeky_James]

So I’m preparing to walk around the glass panel of the café area to open this woman… when a junkie steals my lunch and gets in before me to ask her please could he have a cigarette.. Then he sits down and starts talking to her.
After 5 mins he’s still there . She is mid . So I call it and walk back up to my car,

I had even written a cheat sheet of openers before I left home and it was in my pocket unused.

I did drive back home through a more hipster area and noticed lots of cool folks hanging out at some funky bars and cafes. So I’ll target that area next time.

So lesson of the day - choose your niche
pick the right location(s) and right demographics firstly , lol…