Ryan Adams
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Me and chick broke it off a couple months ago. But everything i put up on social media she always likes. Should i hit her up
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Chick stopped talking to me but still likes all my social media posts
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
PeasantPlayer
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Delete her
^^ This. /Thread.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Delete and block*
Plan A didn't work out for her I guess. Not sure if you want to be plan B.
Plan A didn't work out for her I guess. Not sure if you want to be plan B.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
If they didn't break it off, I can see that. Like they started out as just friends. But his situation is different.
Ryan Adams
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I really just want to fvck her... not worried about dating or whatever.
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
Let her like, means shes stalking your page.
Now go out with some mate, meet some girls and post pics of you and them and see what she does.
Now go out with some mate, meet some girls and post pics of you and them and see what she does.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
Don't delete or block her. No need. Continue with your life, ignore her just like she's doing you.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
nismo-4
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Delete from all platforms, block if you need to. You're not her alpha. All you'll be is her e-orbiter. Not good.
Nope.