Ryan Adams
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Me and chick broke it off a couple months ago. But everything i put up on social media she always likes. Should i hit her up
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Chick stopped talking to me but still likes all my social media posts
- Thread starter Ryan Adams
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
PeasantPlayer
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Delete her
^^ This. /Thread.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Delete and block*
Plan A didn't work out for her I guess. Not sure if you want to be plan B.
Plan A didn't work out for her I guess. Not sure if you want to be plan B.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
If they didn't break it off, I can see that. Like they started out as just friends. But his situation is different.
Ryan Adams
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I really just want to fvck her... not worried about dating or whatever.
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
Let her like, means shes stalking your page.
Now go out with some mate, meet some girls and post pics of you and them and see what she does.
Now go out with some mate, meet some girls and post pics of you and them and see what she does.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
Don't delete or block her. No need. Continue with your life, ignore her just like she's doing you.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
nismo-4
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Delete from all platforms, block if you need to. You're not her alpha. All you'll be is her e-orbiter. Not good.
Nope.