Ryan Adams
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Me and chick broke it off a couple months ago. But everything i put up on social media she always likes. Should i hit her up
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Chick stopped talking to me but still likes all my social media posts
- Thread starter Ryan Adams
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
PeasantPlayer
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Delete her
^^ This. /Thread.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Delete and block*
Plan A didn't work out for her I guess. Not sure if you want to be plan B.
Plan A didn't work out for her I guess. Not sure if you want to be plan B.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
If they didn't break it off, I can see that. Like they started out as just friends. But his situation is different.
Ryan Adams
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I really just want to fvck her... not worried about dating or whatever.
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
Let her like, means shes stalking your page.
Now go out with some mate, meet some girls and post pics of you and them and see what she does.
Now go out with some mate, meet some girls and post pics of you and them and see what she does.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
Don't delete or block her. No need. Continue with your life, ignore her just like she's doing you.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
nismo-4
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Delete from all platforms, block if you need to. You're not her alpha. All you'll be is her e-orbiter. Not good.
Nope.