Ryan Adams
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Me and chick broke it off a couple months ago. But everything i put up on social media she always likes. Should i hit her up
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Chick stopped talking to me but still likes all my social media posts
- Thread starter Ryan Adams
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
PeasantPlayer
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Delete her
^^ This. /Thread.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Delete and block*
Plan A didn't work out for her I guess. Not sure if you want to be plan B.
Plan A didn't work out for her I guess. Not sure if you want to be plan B.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
If they didn't break it off, I can see that. Like they started out as just friends. But his situation is different.
Ryan Adams
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I really just want to fvck her... not worried about dating or whatever.
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
Let her like, means shes stalking your page.
Now go out with some mate, meet some girls and post pics of you and them and see what she does.
Now go out with some mate, meet some girls and post pics of you and them and see what she does.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
Don't delete or block her. No need. Continue with your life, ignore her just like she's doing you.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
nismo-4
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Delete from all platforms, block if you need to. You're not her alpha. All you'll be is her e-orbiter. Not good.
Nope.