Ryan Adams
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Me and chick broke it off a couple months ago. But everything i put up on social media she always likes. Should i hit her up
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Chick stopped talking to me but still likes all my social media posts
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PeasantPlayer
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Delete her
^^ This. /Thread.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Delete and block*
Plan A didn't work out for her I guess. Not sure if you want to be plan B.
Plan A didn't work out for her I guess. Not sure if you want to be plan B.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
If they didn't break it off, I can see that. Like they started out as just friends. But his situation is different.
Ryan Adams
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I really just want to fvck her... not worried about dating or whatever.
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
Let her like, means shes stalking your page.
Now go out with some mate, meet some girls and post pics of you and them and see what she does.
Now go out with some mate, meet some girls and post pics of you and them and see what she does.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
Don't delete or block her. No need. Continue with your life, ignore her just like she's doing you.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
nismo-4
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Delete from all platforms, block if you need to. You're not her alpha. All you'll be is her e-orbiter. Not good.
Nope.