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Would anybody like to play? Or just learn how to play?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Just download the chess.com app to your phone. They have daily challenges that will up your skills.
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@zekko @mrgoodstuff @Atom Smasher @andreihaha @Xenom0rph @TheFinalLine @EyeBRollin @Black Widow Void
I wouldn't mind playing a game, if you're up for it.
I wouldn't mind playing a game, if you're up for it.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
andreihaha
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To be honest, I don't have much spare time at the moment.
I'm still enjoying the warm days to do some sports, might give it a try in the winter.
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You have up to 3 days to make a move.
I typically set mine at 1 day. Otherwise the games get boring and forgettable
thanks, Appreciate it. Takes me a bit to get used to a site, I'll let you know. probably end up spending less time on this site. I've been looking for something since giving up social media and OLD
andreihaha
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Oh, seems really easy like this, might give it a try.
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Welcome to the club
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Yep, guy i've been playing for months lives in Scotland (5 hours ahead of me). We have 24 hours to make a move
I'm in Canada where there is no daylight savings time change-I think its called Cst time here.
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Cool, but the point i was trying to make is that it doesn't matter where you live. You can play anyone from anywhere, on your own schedule
Bible_Belt
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What is your rating?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I do very well against people with my rating.
deep thought, seriously though.
I tried a challenge and two learner games and found myself ignoring their suggestiions and I just won this last one by checkmate. So my confidence is up rn. I'll try another challenge.
revolutionnow
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Where are you located
andreihaha
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Man, you were talking about chess.com in here.Next thing, Facebook starts showing me ads for chess.com coaching 
that's nice of you
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.