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Would anybody like to play? Or just learn how to play?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Just download the chess.com app to your phone. They have daily challenges that will up your skills.
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@zekko @mrgoodstuff @Atom Smasher @andreihaha @Xenom0rph @TheFinalLine @EyeBRollin @Black Widow Void
I wouldn't mind playing a game, if you're up for it.
I wouldn't mind playing a game, if you're up for it.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
andreihaha
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To be honest, I don't have much spare time at the moment.
I'm still enjoying the warm days to do some sports, might give it a try in the winter.
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You have up to 3 days to make a move.
I typically set mine at 1 day. Otherwise the games get boring and forgettable
thanks, Appreciate it. Takes me a bit to get used to a site, I'll let you know. probably end up spending less time on this site. I've been looking for something since giving up social media and OLD
andreihaha
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Oh, seems really easy like this, might give it a try.
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Welcome to the club
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Yep, guy i've been playing for months lives in Scotland (5 hours ahead of me). We have 24 hours to make a move
I'm in Canada where there is no daylight savings time change-I think its called Cst time here.
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Cool, but the point i was trying to make is that it doesn't matter where you live. You can play anyone from anywhere, on your own schedule
Bible_Belt
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What is your rating?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I do very well against people with my rating.
deep thought, seriously though.
I tried a challenge and two learner games and found myself ignoring their suggestiions and I just won this last one by checkmate. So my confidence is up rn. I'll try another challenge.
revolutionnow
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Where are you located
andreihaha
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Man, you were talking about chess.com in here.Next thing, Facebook starts showing me ads for chess.com coaching 
that's nice of you
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.