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Would anybody like to play? Or just learn how to play?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Just download the chess.com app to your phone. They have daily challenges that will up your skills.
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@zekko @mrgoodstuff @Atom Smasher @andreihaha @Xenom0rph @TheFinalLine @EyeBRollin @Black Widow Void
I wouldn't mind playing a game, if you're up for it.
I wouldn't mind playing a game, if you're up for it.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
andreihaha
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To be honest, I don't have much spare time at the moment.
I'm still enjoying the warm days to do some sports, might give it a try in the winter.
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You have up to 3 days to make a move.
I typically set mine at 1 day. Otherwise the games get boring and forgettable
thanks, Appreciate it. Takes me a bit to get used to a site, I'll let you know. probably end up spending less time on this site. I've been looking for something since giving up social media and OLD
andreihaha
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Oh, seems really easy like this, might give it a try.
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Welcome to the club
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Yep, guy i've been playing for months lives in Scotland (5 hours ahead of me). We have 24 hours to make a move
I'm in Canada where there is no daylight savings time change-I think its called Cst time here.
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Cool, but the point i was trying to make is that it doesn't matter where you live. You can play anyone from anywhere, on your own schedule
Bible_Belt
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What is your rating?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I do very well against people with my rating.
deep thought, seriously though.
I tried a challenge and two learner games and found myself ignoring their suggestiions and I just won this last one by checkmate. So my confidence is up rn. I'll try another challenge.
revolutionnow
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Where are you located
andreihaha
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Man, you were talking about chess.com in here.Next thing, Facebook starts showing me ads for chess.com coaching 
that's nice of you
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.