"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Vantagepoint34

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The reason I'm asking is because this company called Tmobile and apparently says I owe them 900$ from 2009 and now the collection company supposedly took over the debt. How come Tmobile never did anything or reported anything until this year?
 

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Check your state's law, but many states have a 4-year statute of limitations on most consumer debts. You can't be sued for an old debt after the statute of limitation runs out. Additionally, you have to be served a notice that you are being sued. If you move around, don't inform banks of your current address, etc., you can pretty easily prevent proper service of notice until the lawsuit dies a year or two after it was filed. If you were never properly notified of a lawsuit, any judgment can easily be vacated (wiped off the books) if you do so within your state's time limit after you learned there was a judgment.

A negative item must be removed from your credit report after 7 years, while positive items must stay for 10 years. Which means, no matter how rotten your credit is now, there'll be a sweet spot of beautiful credit 7-10 years after your last baddie appeared on your credit reports.
 

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vantagepoint said:
The reason I'm asking is because this company called Tmobile and apparently says I owe them 900$ from 2009 and now the collection company supposedly took over the debt. How come Tmobile never did anything or reported anything until this year?
Then you ask for proof of debt. You give them not one cent in return. Any money you give them, even a penny, is admission of debt.

You ask for proof. Once you have that, then you can go further. If you really did have the debt, then you can negotiate with them. They buy that debt for maybe $200-300 max and hope to collect the full $900, so that gives you plenty of wiggle room.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Vantagepoint34

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Alle_Gory said:
Then you ask for proof of debt. You give them not one cent in return. Any money you give them, even a penny, is admission of debt.

You ask for proof. Once you have that, then you can go further. If you really did have the debt, then you can negotiate with them. They buy that debt for maybe $200-300 max and hope to collect the full $900, so that gives you plenty of wiggle room.
Thanks that didn't even come to mind. They called me during a fourth of July bbq and the last thing that was on my mind was a collection company. Will be asking them for proof of debt next time that comes around.
 
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