Vantagepoint34
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Then you ask for proof of debt. You give them not one cent in return. Any money you give them, even a penny, is admission of debt.vantagepoint said:The reason I'm asking is because this company called Tmobile and apparently says I owe them 900$ from 2009 and now the collection company supposedly took over the debt. How come Tmobile never did anything or reported anything until this year?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Thanks that didn't even come to mind. They called me during a fourth of July bbq and the last thing that was on my mind was a collection company. Will be asking them for proof of debt next time that comes around.Alle_Gory said:Then you ask for proof of debt. You give them not one cent in return. Any money you give them, even a penny, is admission of debt.
You ask for proof. Once you have that, then you can go further. If you really did have the debt, then you can negotiate with them. They buy that debt for maybe $200-300 max and hope to collect the full $900, so that gives you plenty of wiggle room.