"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Vantagepoint34

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The reason I'm asking is because this company called Tmobile and apparently says I owe them 900$ from 2009 and now the collection company supposedly took over the debt. How come Tmobile never did anything or reported anything until this year?
 

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Check your state's law, but many states have a 4-year statute of limitations on most consumer debts. You can't be sued for an old debt after the statute of limitation runs out. Additionally, you have to be served a notice that you are being sued. If you move around, don't inform banks of your current address, etc., you can pretty easily prevent proper service of notice until the lawsuit dies a year or two after it was filed. If you were never properly notified of a lawsuit, any judgment can easily be vacated (wiped off the books) if you do so within your state's time limit after you learned there was a judgment.

A negative item must be removed from your credit report after 7 years, while positive items must stay for 10 years. Which means, no matter how rotten your credit is now, there'll be a sweet spot of beautiful credit 7-10 years after your last baddie appeared on your credit reports.
 

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vantagepoint said:
The reason I'm asking is because this company called Tmobile and apparently says I owe them 900$ from 2009 and now the collection company supposedly took over the debt. How come Tmobile never did anything or reported anything until this year?
Then you ask for proof of debt. You give them not one cent in return. Any money you give them, even a penny, is admission of debt.

You ask for proof. Once you have that, then you can go further. If you really did have the debt, then you can negotiate with them. They buy that debt for maybe $200-300 max and hope to collect the full $900, so that gives you plenty of wiggle room.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vantagepoint34

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Alle_Gory said:
Then you ask for proof of debt. You give them not one cent in return. Any money you give them, even a penny, is admission of debt.

You ask for proof. Once you have that, then you can go further. If you really did have the debt, then you can negotiate with them. They buy that debt for maybe $200-300 max and hope to collect the full $900, so that gives you plenty of wiggle room.
Thanks that didn't even come to mind. They called me during a fourth of July bbq and the last thing that was on my mind was a collection company. Will be asking them for proof of debt next time that comes around.
 
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