niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
@mrgoodstuff What are your thoughts?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Caught girlfriend cheating just now.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
flowtheory
Master Don Juan
I was talking about in terms of her best friend.
As for your current girlfriend, do you have any factual evidence of foul play?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Other than the facebook thing are you a "secret"? Being a secret is not usually good at all unless you was a gigilo or something
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
@flowtheory, I have lots of behavioral evidence when she goes to visit her friend she always texts and calls me. I asked her to call me and she said she would but never did. That was 3 days ago and I haven't messaged her since. Also she was on the phone to someone and as soon as I approached her she walked down the road to talk. And she said she was anxious about going on the trip to see her friend.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
@mrgoodstuff I'm meant to be her boyfriend. I feel like I'm being treated as a secret now lol
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Are you out in front of people in public?
If shes hiding you all around it means shes ashamed or have something else shes with.
So it goes that they have to desire us for boyfriend. She has to intensly want that.
In the last 5 years ago they been flipping it. That makes you her bytch.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
@mrgoodstuff well now ive become a ghost so to speak she won't be hearing from me ever again.
Music_czar
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It could mean nothing.. maybe she wants you as a Facebook friend after a meeting with you went well. Or maybe she’s keeping tabs on you, offering a second opinion to your gf.
Whatever the case, setting up a second fb without you on it is a super shady move designed by your gf to keep seeing/meeting guys on the side without your knowledge.
I’d suggest you keep banging her, but it’s obvious you’ve caught the feels or else you wouldn’t have started this thread.
Find a new woman and disengage from this one before you get hurt.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Self respect. Keeps your masculinity intact. When we allow ourselves to be treated poorly it blocks our blessings. It kills attraction others may have for you. Good man.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
I was going to reply but he nailed it pretty well with this:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I also think you can fvck her if your messing with other people. If shes a flakey plate throw her away.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
You guys are ****ing great lol
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
@samspade I'm keeping her on facebook but it's gonna be dead and I'm not replying or reading her messages it will really screw with her head. She's back from her trip today apparently so I'm just waiting on her to tell me to come over. In which she will get no reply lol
Chev.Chelios
Master Don Juan
because women are sex machines.
plain and simple...
exclusive relationships are a security blanket, sort of like a part time job. eventually the girl gets bored and wants new ****. no such thing as monogamy.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
All women dont love sex. Many dont. They have sex to acquire what they want.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Where is she returning on her trip from?
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
@mrgoodstuff From the city lol which is 2 hours from me lol. Her friends and family still have me on facebook though which is confusing. But I'm already gone lol
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
If you penetrate another that likes you about 3-5 times it distances you.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
@mrgoodstuff I don't need to bang someone else I've grown cold since she told me she would call and didn't. She will be back I know this. But I can't go back lol
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You got too much self respect. Loan some out to the members. So you feel she was trying to use you for a fool and you just cant do it huh?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.