Klippymitch
Don Juan
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I find it wrong to just bang a chick for my own pleasure(one night stands). You guys need to convince me that it's okay.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
it´s okay...Klippymitch said:I find it wrong to just bang a chick for my own pleasure(one night stands). You guys need to convince me that it's okay.
Maybe u just need a bit of heartbreak, then when a girl (someone u think u'll spend ur life with) really ****s u about, something just clicks...Klippymitch said:I find it wrong to just bang a chick for my own pleasure(one night stands). You guys need to convince me that it's okay.
sorry dude but that's the worst reason to do it...just do it for fun - they wouldn't do it if they didn't want to, everyone's happy (except maybe a guy who's been sniffing around her but who cares?)NickSCFC2000 said:Maybe u just need a bit of heartbreak, then when a girl (someone u think u'll spend ur life with) really ****s u about, something just clicks...
I used to feel the same way as u about chicks. Now I don't have the slightest problem, I never mess chicks around n lead them on or anything though.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
YOUR pleasure? Don't forget the woman also gets pleasure from it (otherwise she wouldn't do it, would she?)Klippymitch said:I find it wrong to just bang a chick for my own pleasure(one night stands).