Klippymitch
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I find it wrong to just bang a chick for my own pleasure(one night stands). You guys need to convince me that it's okay.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Cant just **** a chick.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
howardalex
Banned
why should it be wrong?
it feels good, she wouldn't do it if she didn't want to, everyone's a winner
it feels good, she wouldn't do it if she didn't want to, everyone's a winner
NickSCFC2000
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Maybe u just need a bit of heartbreak, then when a girl (someone u think u'll spend ur life with) really ****s u about, something just clicks...Klippymitch said:
I used to feel the same way as u about chicks. Now I don't have the slightest problem, I never mess chicks around n lead them on or anything though.
howardalex
Banned
sorry dude but that's the worst reason to do it...just do it for fun - they wouldn't do it if they didn't want to, everyone's happy (except maybe a guy who's been sniffing around her but who cares?)NickSCFC2000 said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
NickSCFC2000
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I'm not saying it's a reason to do it, it just makes it feel easier for you.
diplomatic_lies
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YOUR pleasure? Don't forget the woman also gets pleasure from it (otherwise she wouldn't do it, would she?)Klippymitch said:
Sex is like the free market. You both get something out of it.
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
I wanted to post here because I feel ya. On one hand I want to fvck everyshe I see. On the other, I want to be cold blooded and think that fvcking chicks would be wrong. It's conflicting. But I think I'll stick with being slightly coldblooded while banging chicks.