Klippymitch
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I find it wrong to just bang a chick for my own pleasure(one night stands). You guys need to convince me that it's okay.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Cant just **** a chick.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
howardalex
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why should it be wrong?
it feels good, she wouldn't do it if she didn't want to, everyone's a winner
it feels good, she wouldn't do it if she didn't want to, everyone's a winner
NickSCFC2000
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Maybe u just need a bit of heartbreak, then when a girl (someone u think u'll spend ur life with) really ****s u about, something just clicks...Klippymitch said:
I used to feel the same way as u about chicks. Now I don't have the slightest problem, I never mess chicks around n lead them on or anything though.
howardalex
Banned
sorry dude but that's the worst reason to do it...just do it for fun - they wouldn't do it if they didn't want to, everyone's happy (except maybe a guy who's been sniffing around her but who cares?)NickSCFC2000 said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
NickSCFC2000
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I'm not saying it's a reason to do it, it just makes it feel easier for you.
diplomatic_lies
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YOUR pleasure? Don't forget the woman also gets pleasure from it (otherwise she wouldn't do it, would she?)Klippymitch said:
Sex is like the free market. You both get something out of it.
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
I wanted to post here because I feel ya. On one hand I want to fvck everyshe I see. On the other, I want to be cold blooded and think that fvcking chicks would be wrong. It's conflicting. But I think I'll stick with being slightly coldblooded while banging chicks.