Klippymitch
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I find it wrong to just bang a chick for my own pleasure(one night stands). You guys need to convince me that it's okay.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Cant just **** a chick.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
howardalex
Banned
why should it be wrong?
it feels good, she wouldn't do it if she didn't want to, everyone's a winner
it feels good, she wouldn't do it if she didn't want to, everyone's a winner
NickSCFC2000
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Maybe u just need a bit of heartbreak, then when a girl (someone u think u'll spend ur life with) really ****s u about, something just clicks...Klippymitch said:
I used to feel the same way as u about chicks. Now I don't have the slightest problem, I never mess chicks around n lead them on or anything though.
howardalex
Banned
sorry dude but that's the worst reason to do it...just do it for fun - they wouldn't do it if they didn't want to, everyone's happy (except maybe a guy who's been sniffing around her but who cares?)NickSCFC2000 said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
NickSCFC2000
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I'm not saying it's a reason to do it, it just makes it feel easier for you.
diplomatic_lies
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YOUR pleasure? Don't forget the woman also gets pleasure from it (otherwise she wouldn't do it, would she?)Klippymitch said:
Sex is like the free market. You both get something out of it.
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
I wanted to post here because I feel ya. On one hand I want to fvck everyshe I see. On the other, I want to be cold blooded and think that fvcking chicks would be wrong. It's conflicting. But I think I'll stick with being slightly coldblooded while banging chicks.