7onriverI f
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In order for me to get a hard on I gotta rub it quite fast to get hard. condoms make me go soft. Help? what do i do?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
KindredSpiritzz
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stop rubbing it, your desensitized
ThisIsSparta
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stop watching porn, cut down on the dope, do workout, do cardio, eat healthy, get sleep..... do this for 2 months and then come back
Romanemp22
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Masturbation?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
ThisIsSparta
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That depends i guess...... if he is masturbating 2 hours before his dates or every day i would cut down on that too.
Romanemp22
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True, if no sex probably once per week is the optimal way.
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Being gay is fine
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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You need a boner donor
7onriverI f
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I have no problem getting it hard by myself. 30 seconds of jerking it any time any place and im hard.
Problem is I'm not erect when grinding on girls. Guy's don't turn me on and I'm thinking about banging hoes I have met before and think of them while watching porn where the girl looks like that hoe from long time.
No girl in the club is turning me on where I save her for the wank bank. I only really think of 2 women I knew in the past now who i fantasize about on the daily sometimes twice or three times daily.
I'm thinking about friendzoning some of these hoes like the one I met tonight. Shes psychotic because she smoked to much dope and thinks everyone can hear her thoughts. Her gay friend told me that she left and said she's ****ed in the head. I liked talking to her and she opened me. I'm not going to save her to wank bank though. I could of pulled her to smoke some dope with her if i had some but I don't smoke dope. She's actually better looking than my jerk off main hoes but I wouldn't fantasize of banging her.
Should I just think about other girls while banging these *****s? I don't wanna use condoms. I could just think about my main hoes that turns me on while getting a blow job from the new hoes and then spray all over their face decorating it.
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Georgepithyou
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If you enjoy lasting 5 seconds do no fap
Kotaix
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Your problem is that you're thinking. I have a bit of a problem with this myself. If my head is off thinking about something else when I'm having sex then it's quite possible that i won't be able to nut. You're way off in lala land. Stop thinking so much and stop fantasizing.
The best sex for me is always when my mind is quiet and I'm able to enjoy what it is I'm doing and who I'm doing it with.
Your d!ck is probably looking at these nasty skanks and refusing to work to save you from the VD it knows is up in that.
Condoms are the absolute devil. I have trouble staying hard with them.
The best sex for me is always when my mind is quiet and I'm able to enjoy what it is I'm doing and who I'm doing it with.
Your d!ck is probably looking at these nasty skanks and refusing to work to save you from the VD it knows is up in that.
Condoms are the absolute devil. I have trouble staying hard with them.
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Your gay. That's fine dude find yourself a lover.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.