"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In order for me to get a hard on I gotta rub it quite fast to get hard. condoms make me go soft. Help? what do i do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You have whats called death grip. Use two fingers you're jerking it too hard
 
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The meds you're on could affect your erections and maybe you should continue going to gay bars and hit on guys and see if they can do it for you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lookatu said:
The meds you're on could affect your erections and maybe you should continue going to gay bars and hit on guys and see if they can do it for you.
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I have no problem getting it hard by myself. 30 seconds of jerking it any time any place and im hard.

Problem is I'm not erect when grinding on girls. Guy's don't turn me on and I'm thinking about banging hoes I have met before and think of them while watching porn where the girl looks like that hoe from long time.

No girl in the club is turning me on where I save her for the wank bank. I only really think of 2 women I knew in the past now who i fantasize about on the daily sometimes twice or three times daily.

I'm thinking about friendzoning some of these hoes like the one I met tonight. Shes psychotic because she smoked to much dope and thinks everyone can hear her thoughts. Her gay friend told me that she left and said she's ****ed in the head. I liked talking to her and she opened me. I'm not going to save her to wank bank though. I could of pulled her to smoke some dope with her if i had some but I don't smoke dope. She's actually better looking than my jerk off main hoes but I wouldn't fantasize of banging her.

Should I just think about other girls while banging these *****s? I don't wanna use condoms. I could just think about my main hoes that turns me on while getting a blow job from the new hoes and then spray all over their face decorating it.
 
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Your problem is that you're thinking. I have a bit of a problem with this myself. If my head is off thinking about something else when I'm having sex then it's quite possible that i won't be able to nut. You're way off in lala land. Stop thinking so much and stop fantasizing.

The best sex for me is always when my mind is quiet and I'm able to enjoy what it is I'm doing and who I'm doing it with.

Your d!ck is probably looking at these nasty skanks and refusing to work to save you from the VD it knows is up in that.

Condoms are the absolute devil. I have trouble staying hard with them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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