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In order for me to get a hard on I gotta rub it quite fast to get hard. condoms make me go soft. Help? what do i do?
 

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You have whats called death grip. Use two fingers you're jerking it too hard
 

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The meds you're on could affect your erections and maybe you should continue going to gay bars and hit on guys and see if they can do it for you.
 

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The meds you're on could affect your erections and maybe you should continue going to gay bars and hit on guys and see if they can do it for you.
I have no problem getting it hard by myself. 30 seconds of jerking it any time any place and im hard.

Problem is I'm not erect when grinding on girls. Guy's don't turn me on and I'm thinking about banging hoes I have met before and think of them while watching porn where the girl looks like that hoe from long time.

No girl in the club is turning me on where I save her for the wank bank. I only really think of 2 women I knew in the past now who i fantasize about on the daily sometimes twice or three times daily.

I'm thinking about friendzoning some of these hoes like the one I met tonight. Shes psychotic because she smoked to much dope and thinks everyone can hear her thoughts. Her gay friend told me that she left and said she's ****ed in the head. I liked talking to her and she opened me. I'm not going to save her to wank bank though. I could of pulled her to smoke some dope with her if i had some but I don't smoke dope. She's actually better looking than my jerk off main hoes but I wouldn't fantasize of banging her.

Should I just think about other girls while banging these *****s? I don't wanna use condoms. I could just think about my main hoes that turns me on while getting a blow job from the new hoes and then spray all over their face decorating it.
 
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Your problem is that you're thinking. I have a bit of a problem with this myself. If my head is off thinking about something else when I'm having sex then it's quite possible that i won't be able to nut. You're way off in lala land. Stop thinking so much and stop fantasizing.

The best sex for me is always when my mind is quiet and I'm able to enjoy what it is I'm doing and who I'm doing it with.

Your d!ck is probably looking at these nasty skanks and refusing to work to save you from the VD it knows is up in that.

Condoms are the absolute devil. I have trouble staying hard with them.
 
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