"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can it be a sexual problem or a mental blockage?

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Hello guys I’m new on the forum but I have a question that’s been burning inside me a lot lately.
My last relationship was toxic as I was so deeply ingrained and hurting myself that I finally was accustomed to it. The #1 reason being that I’ve never been able to **** her as I would want to.

Not that she wasn’t in it, but I couldn’t do more that 30seconds and that undermined my confidence in the bedroom. Now I’m so much afraid to live that disappointment again that I can’t resolve myself to be woth another woman.

Can it be that I have mental blockages or can it be medical too ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Most problems with your buddy are actually related to some kind of anxiety. A therapist can help you out with that, guide you to overcome this feeling and have a better performance.
 
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Hank Moody said:
Welcome to the boards.

Are you cvmming after 30 seconds, or going soft after 30 seconds?
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I *** and that’s pretty disagreeable. The envy is here but I can’t do nothing with that. Sometimes I come two times in a row in the same night in like 30seconds. Before getting in tho nothing I’m calm. But hearing moaning or stuffs from a woman make *** easily
 
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Are you wearing a condom?
 
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Why youre staying in toxic relationship? Premature ejaculation were common in those kind of toxic attachments .. It just a start to many serious illness that sure will coming on your way if you decide to stay.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There are so many variables ... if it’s medical you would blow your load wacking off in 30 seconds.... do you do that ? How often were you having sex.... how hot were the girls? If I don’t have sex often... after 3 days of no release I can pressure wash a house with the right breeze. Have you ever gone more than 30 seconds ?? You ever trying drinking before sex? Give us some more info and we can probably guide you better.
 
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You need to work on delaying this. It is very possible but will require work on your part.
 
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