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Can it be a sexual problem or a mental blockage?

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Hello guys I’m new on the forum but I have a question that’s been burning inside me a lot lately.
My last relationship was toxic as I was so deeply ingrained and hurting myself that I finally was accustomed to it. The #1 reason being that I’ve never been able to **** her as I would want to.

Not that she wasn’t in it, but I couldn’t do more that 30seconds and that undermined my confidence in the bedroom. Now I’m so much afraid to live that disappointment again that I can’t resolve myself to be woth another woman.

Can it be that I have mental blockages or can it be medical too ?
 

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Hello guys I’m new on the forum but I have a question that’s been burning inside me a lot lately.
My last relationship was toxic as I was so deeply ingrained and hurting myself that I finally was accustomed to it. The #1 reason being that I’ve never been able to **** her as I would want to.

Not that she wasn’t in it, but I couldn’t do more that 30seconds and that undermined my confidence in the bedroom. Now I’m so much afraid to live that disappointment again that I can’t resolve myself to be woth another woman.

Can it be that I have mental blockages or can it be medical too ?
Welcome to the boards.

Are you cvmming after 30 seconds, or going soft after 30 seconds?
 

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Most problems with your buddy are actually related to some kind of anxiety. A therapist can help you out with that, guide you to overcome this feeling and have a better performance.
 

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Welcome to the boards.

Are you cvmming after 30 seconds, or going soft after 30 seconds?
I *** and that’s pretty disagreeable. The envy is here but I can’t do nothing with that. Sometimes I come two times in a row in the same night in like 30seconds. Before getting in tho nothing I’m calm. But hearing moaning or stuffs from a woman make *** easily
 

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Why youre staying in toxic relationship? Premature ejaculation were common in those kind of toxic attachments .. It just a start to many serious illness that sure will coming on your way if you decide to stay.
 
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There are so many variables ... if it’s medical you would blow your load wacking off in 30 seconds.... do you do that ? How often were you having sex.... how hot were the girls? If I don’t have sex often... after 3 days of no release I can pressure wash a house with the right breeze. Have you ever gone more than 30 seconds ?? You ever trying drinking before sex? Give us some more info and we can probably guide you better.
 
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