"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can it be a sexual problem or a mental blockage?

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Hello guys I’m new on the forum but I have a question that’s been burning inside me a lot lately.
My last relationship was toxic as I was so deeply ingrained and hurting myself that I finally was accustomed to it. The #1 reason being that I’ve never been able to **** her as I would want to.

Not that she wasn’t in it, but I couldn’t do more that 30seconds and that undermined my confidence in the bedroom. Now I’m so much afraid to live that disappointment again that I can’t resolve myself to be woth another woman.

Can it be that I have mental blockages or can it be medical too ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Most problems with your buddy are actually related to some kind of anxiety. A therapist can help you out with that, guide you to overcome this feeling and have a better performance.
 
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Hank Moody said:
Welcome to the boards.

Are you cvmming after 30 seconds, or going soft after 30 seconds?
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I *** and that’s pretty disagreeable. The envy is here but I can’t do nothing with that. Sometimes I come two times in a row in the same night in like 30seconds. Before getting in tho nothing I’m calm. But hearing moaning or stuffs from a woman make *** easily
 
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Are you wearing a condom?
 
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Why youre staying in toxic relationship? Premature ejaculation were common in those kind of toxic attachments .. It just a start to many serious illness that sure will coming on your way if you decide to stay.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There are so many variables ... if it’s medical you would blow your load wacking off in 30 seconds.... do you do that ? How often were you having sex.... how hot were the girls? If I don’t have sex often... after 3 days of no release I can pressure wash a house with the right breeze. Have you ever gone more than 30 seconds ?? You ever trying drinking before sex? Give us some more info and we can probably guide you better.
 
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You need to work on delaying this. It is very possible but will require work on your part.
 
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