"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Can I lay it down like this

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Ok here is the deal. This girl I have been wanting to get with has told me she would date me and I keep fuxking around. I am sick of sitting on my fat ass doing nothing. Would it be crazy if when I see her friday to lay it down like this (So I am tired of all this screwing around. You are mine now and we are going to start going out. You don't need any other man because I am here now) Tell me if this is ok or too forward.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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619joe

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Why dont when you are with her "So you want me huh?Well you know what,your gonna have to prove it.Show me that you want me"

If shes more of the shy type you say "Ok then how will this do" and go in for the kill
 

619joe

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Why dont when you are with her "So you want me huh?Well you know what,your gonna have to prove it.Show me that you want me"

If shes more of the shy type you say "Ok then how will this do" and go in for the kill
 

Mavrick

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How about you guys go on some dates. That's what dating is. If you tell her that she doesn't need another man, you're just telling her that you want to be exclusive with her, and that's not very interesting.

While you're dating her, let her be the one to pursue an exclusive relationship to avoid coming off needy and/or desperate. You shouldn't be the one to do that.

So, for now, just date her and date other women so you don't become so needy and desperate for her.
 
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