"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Can I lay it down like this

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Ok here is the deal. This girl I have been wanting to get with has told me she would date me and I keep fuxking around. I am sick of sitting on my fat ass doing nothing. Would it be crazy if when I see her friday to lay it down like this (So I am tired of all this screwing around. You are mine now and we are going to start going out. You don't need any other man because I am here now) Tell me if this is ok or too forward.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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619joe

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Why dont when you are with her "So you want me huh?Well you know what,your gonna have to prove it.Show me that you want me"

If shes more of the shy type you say "Ok then how will this do" and go in for the kill
 

619joe

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Why dont when you are with her "So you want me huh?Well you know what,your gonna have to prove it.Show me that you want me"

If shes more of the shy type you say "Ok then how will this do" and go in for the kill
 

Mavrick

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How about you guys go on some dates. That's what dating is. If you tell her that she doesn't need another man, you're just telling her that you want to be exclusive with her, and that's not very interesting.

While you're dating her, let her be the one to pursue an exclusive relationship to avoid coming off needy and/or desperate. You shouldn't be the one to do that.

So, for now, just date her and date other women so you don't become so needy and desperate for her.
 
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