"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Can I lay it down like this

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Ok here is the deal. This girl I have been wanting to get with has told me she would date me and I keep fuxking around. I am sick of sitting on my fat ass doing nothing. Would it be crazy if when I see her friday to lay it down like this (So I am tired of all this screwing around. You are mine now and we are going to start going out. You don't need any other man because I am here now) Tell me if this is ok or too forward.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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619joe

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Why dont when you are with her "So you want me huh?Well you know what,your gonna have to prove it.Show me that you want me"

If shes more of the shy type you say "Ok then how will this do" and go in for the kill
 
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Why dont when you are with her "So you want me huh?Well you know what,your gonna have to prove it.Show me that you want me"

If shes more of the shy type you say "Ok then how will this do" and go in for the kill
 
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Mavrick

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How about you guys go on some dates. That's what dating is. If you tell her that she doesn't need another man, you're just telling her that you want to be exclusive with her, and that's not very interesting.

While you're dating her, let her be the one to pursue an exclusive relationship to avoid coming off needy and/or desperate. You shouldn't be the one to do that.

So, for now, just date her and date other women so you don't become so needy and desperate for her.
 
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