"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Can I lay it down like this

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Ok here is the deal. This girl I have been wanting to get with has told me she would date me and I keep fuxking around. I am sick of sitting on my fat ass doing nothing. Would it be crazy if when I see her friday to lay it down like this (So I am tired of all this screwing around. You are mine now and we are going to start going out. You don't need any other man because I am here now) Tell me if this is ok or too forward.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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619joe

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Why dont when you are with her "So you want me huh?Well you know what,your gonna have to prove it.Show me that you want me"

If shes more of the shy type you say "Ok then how will this do" and go in for the kill
 

619joe

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Why dont when you are with her "So you want me huh?Well you know what,your gonna have to prove it.Show me that you want me"

If shes more of the shy type you say "Ok then how will this do" and go in for the kill
 

Mavrick

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How about you guys go on some dates. That's what dating is. If you tell her that she doesn't need another man, you're just telling her that you want to be exclusive with her, and that's not very interesting.

While you're dating her, let her be the one to pursue an exclusive relationship to avoid coming off needy and/or desperate. You shouldn't be the one to do that.

So, for now, just date her and date other women so you don't become so needy and desperate for her.
 
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