"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Can I lay it down like this

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Ok here is the deal. This girl I have been wanting to get with has told me she would date me and I keep fuxking around. I am sick of sitting on my fat ass doing nothing. Would it be crazy if when I see her friday to lay it down like this (So I am tired of all this screwing around. You are mine now and we are going to start going out. You don't need any other man because I am here now) Tell me if this is ok or too forward.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why dont when you are with her "So you want me huh?Well you know what,your gonna have to prove it.Show me that you want me"

If shes more of the shy type you say "Ok then how will this do" and go in for the kill
 
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Why dont when you are with her "So you want me huh?Well you know what,your gonna have to prove it.Show me that you want me"

If shes more of the shy type you say "Ok then how will this do" and go in for the kill
 
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How about you guys go on some dates. That's what dating is. If you tell her that she doesn't need another man, you're just telling her that you want to be exclusive with her, and that's not very interesting.

While you're dating her, let her be the one to pursue an exclusive relationship to avoid coming off needy and/or desperate. You shouldn't be the one to do that.

So, for now, just date her and date other women so you don't become so needy and desperate for her.
 
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