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Master Don Juan
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Can any one of us really think in the u.s.a. we can find bliss through a lady friend...or whatever u want to call it....I didn't want to offend ur sensibilities. ...?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Sure, if her interest level is high enough. But, I wouldn't look to women for happiness.Can any one of us really think in the u.s.a. we can find bliss through a lady friend...or whatever u want to call it....I didn't want to offend ur sensibilities. ...?
It's a dark time in our history, and it's only going to get darker. Greed is commonplace. So is pride/arrogance.But... Dycks will find pvzzy and vice versa...but since we all have it so easy in the states compared to the globe. I'm just wondering if men and women are more in tune with their true self's, selves,...
In a big metropolitan place, the latest tweet or screenshot if what the general young population experiences....
Maybe its greed I'm upset about, but I'm just a sideways kid in an upright upside down world
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Sex and strong lust and infatuation have folks thinking it's love. Love is something much deeper.I understand what you're getting at.. US morals and integrity amongst relationships and love are definitely some of the worst in the world I would think just because of how much capabilities are open to us for cheating and how we promote the idea of having sex with lots of people as well as glamourize the promiscuity of sexual affairs........
But yeah you can find love. That's a given. Love is a connection that is very hard to explain. There's been documentaries on it.. with science behidn it and all that.. The connection of love is something really deep and anyone can find it.
The problem with most people is we force ourselves to thinking we're in love with someone when really its just infatuation
Yep, right on. I seen a documentary about love between people with mental disorders/differences such as aspergers and autism.. and it's definitely something very deepSex and strong lust and infatuation have folks thinking it's love. Love is something much deeper.
Sex and strong lust and infatuation have folks thinking it's love. Love is something much deeper.
Which documentary was that? Sounds interesting, I want to watch it!Yep, right on. I seen a documentary about love between people with mental disorders/differences such as aspergers and autism.. and it's definitely something very deep
I am googling it for ya as I type this message.. One sec. Found itWhich documentary was that? Sounds interesting, I want to watch it!
The only bliss I get is when I accidentally shoot my load up her nostrilCan any one of us really think in the u.s.a. we can find bliss through a lady friend
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thanks, will watch!I am googling it for ya as I type this message.. One sec. Found it
Here ya go man! http://www.pbs.org/independentlens/films/autism-in-love/
It's def a interesting documentary.
No prob! PBS has been having some great documentaries lately.Thanks, will watch!
Ahh... the words of a true Romantic...The only bliss I get is when I accidentally shoot my load up her nostril