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Master Don Juan
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Can any one of us really think in the u.s.a. we can find bliss through a lady friend...or whatever u want to call it....I didn't want to offend ur sensibilities. ...?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sure, if her interest level is high enough. But, I wouldn't look to women for happiness.Can any one of us really think in the u.s.a. we can find bliss through a lady friend...or whatever u want to call it....I didn't want to offend ur sensibilities. ...?
It's a dark time in our history, and it's only going to get darker. Greed is commonplace. So is pride/arrogance.But... Dycks will find pvzzy and vice versa...but since we all have it so easy in the states compared to the globe. I'm just wondering if men and women are more in tune with their true self's, selves,...
In a big metropolitan place, the latest tweet or screenshot if what the general young population experiences....
Maybe its greed I'm upset about, but I'm just a sideways kid in an upright upside down world
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sex and strong lust and infatuation have folks thinking it's love. Love is something much deeper.I understand what you're getting at.. US morals and integrity amongst relationships and love are definitely some of the worst in the world I would think just because of how much capabilities are open to us for cheating and how we promote the idea of having sex with lots of people as well as glamourize the promiscuity of sexual affairs........
But yeah you can find love. That's a given. Love is a connection that is very hard to explain. There's been documentaries on it.. with science behidn it and all that.. The connection of love is something really deep and anyone can find it.
The problem with most people is we force ourselves to thinking we're in love with someone when really its just infatuation
Yep, right on. I seen a documentary about love between people with mental disorders/differences such as aspergers and autism.. and it's definitely something very deepSex and strong lust and infatuation have folks thinking it's love. Love is something much deeper.
Sex and strong lust and infatuation have folks thinking it's love. Love is something much deeper.
Which documentary was that? Sounds interesting, I want to watch it!Yep, right on. I seen a documentary about love between people with mental disorders/differences such as aspergers and autism.. and it's definitely something very deep
I am googling it for ya as I type this message.. One sec. Found itWhich documentary was that? Sounds interesting, I want to watch it!
The only bliss I get is when I accidentally shoot my load up her nostrilCan any one of us really think in the u.s.a. we can find bliss through a lady friend
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thanks, will watch!I am googling it for ya as I type this message.. One sec. Found it
Here ya go man! http://www.pbs.org/independentlens/films/autism-in-love/
It's def a interesting documentary.
No prob! PBS has been having some great documentaries lately.Thanks, will watch!
Ahh... the words of a true Romantic...The only bliss I get is when I accidentally shoot my load up her nostril