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Master Don Juan
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Can any one of us really think in the u.s.a. we can find bliss through a lady friend...or whatever u want to call it....I didn't want to offend ur sensibilities. ...?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Sure, if her interest level is high enough. But, I wouldn't look to women for happiness.Can any one of us really think in the u.s.a. we can find bliss through a lady friend...or whatever u want to call it....I didn't want to offend ur sensibilities. ...?
It's a dark time in our history, and it's only going to get darker. Greed is commonplace. So is pride/arrogance.But... Dycks will find pvzzy and vice versa...but since we all have it so easy in the states compared to the globe. I'm just wondering if men and women are more in tune with their true self's, selves,...
In a big metropolitan place, the latest tweet or screenshot if what the general young population experiences....
Maybe its greed I'm upset about, but I'm just a sideways kid in an upright upside down world
#sideways#copyrights
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Sex and strong lust and infatuation have folks thinking it's love. Love is something much deeper.I understand what you're getting at.. US morals and integrity amongst relationships and love are definitely some of the worst in the world I would think just because of how much capabilities are open to us for cheating and how we promote the idea of having sex with lots of people as well as glamourize the promiscuity of sexual affairs........
But yeah you can find love. That's a given. Love is a connection that is very hard to explain. There's been documentaries on it.. with science behidn it and all that.. The connection of love is something really deep and anyone can find it.
The problem with most people is we force ourselves to thinking we're in love with someone when really its just infatuation
Yep, right on. I seen a documentary about love between people with mental disorders/differences such as aspergers and autism.. and it's definitely something very deepSex and strong lust and infatuation have folks thinking it's love. Love is something much deeper.
Sex and strong lust and infatuation have folks thinking it's love. Love is something much deeper.
Which documentary was that? Sounds interesting, I want to watch it!Yep, right on. I seen a documentary about love between people with mental disorders/differences such as aspergers and autism.. and it's definitely something very deep
I am googling it for ya as I type this message.. One sec. Found itWhich documentary was that? Sounds interesting, I want to watch it!
The only bliss I get is when I accidentally shoot my load up her nostrilCan any one of us really think in the u.s.a. we can find bliss through a lady friend
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Thanks, will watch!I am googling it for ya as I type this message.. One sec. Found it
Here ya go man! http://www.pbs.org/independentlens/films/autism-in-love/
It's def a interesting documentary.
No prob! PBS has been having some great documentaries lately.Thanks, will watch!
Ahh... the words of a true Romantic...The only bliss I get is when I accidentally shoot my load up her nostril