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Master Don Juan
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Can any one of us really think in the u.s.a. we can find bliss through a lady friend...or whatever u want to call it....I didn't want to offend ur sensibilities. ...?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Sure, if her interest level is high enough. But, I wouldn't look to women for happiness.Can any one of us really think in the u.s.a. we can find bliss through a lady friend...or whatever u want to call it....I didn't want to offend ur sensibilities. ...?
It's a dark time in our history, and it's only going to get darker. Greed is commonplace. So is pride/arrogance.But... Dycks will find pvzzy and vice versa...but since we all have it so easy in the states compared to the globe. I'm just wondering if men and women are more in tune with their true self's, selves,...
In a big metropolitan place, the latest tweet or screenshot if what the general young population experiences....
Maybe its greed I'm upset about, but I'm just a sideways kid in an upright upside down world
#sideways#copyrights
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Sex and strong lust and infatuation have folks thinking it's love. Love is something much deeper.I understand what you're getting at.. US morals and integrity amongst relationships and love are definitely some of the worst in the world I would think just because of how much capabilities are open to us for cheating and how we promote the idea of having sex with lots of people as well as glamourize the promiscuity of sexual affairs........
But yeah you can find love. That's a given. Love is a connection that is very hard to explain. There's been documentaries on it.. with science behidn it and all that.. The connection of love is something really deep and anyone can find it.
The problem with most people is we force ourselves to thinking we're in love with someone when really its just infatuation
Yep, right on. I seen a documentary about love between people with mental disorders/differences such as aspergers and autism.. and it's definitely something very deepSex and strong lust and infatuation have folks thinking it's love. Love is something much deeper.
Sex and strong lust and infatuation have folks thinking it's love. Love is something much deeper.
Which documentary was that? Sounds interesting, I want to watch it!Yep, right on. I seen a documentary about love between people with mental disorders/differences such as aspergers and autism.. and it's definitely something very deep
I am googling it for ya as I type this message.. One sec. Found itWhich documentary was that? Sounds interesting, I want to watch it!
The only bliss I get is when I accidentally shoot my load up her nostrilCan any one of us really think in the u.s.a. we can find bliss through a lady friend
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Thanks, will watch!I am googling it for ya as I type this message.. One sec. Found it
Here ya go man! http://www.pbs.org/independentlens/films/autism-in-love/
It's def a interesting documentary.
No prob! PBS has been having some great documentaries lately.Thanks, will watch!
Ahh... the words of a true Romantic...The only bliss I get is when I accidentally shoot my load up her nostril