"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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can any of us really...

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Can any one of us really think in the u.s.a. we can find bliss through a lady friend...or whatever u want to call it....I didn't want to offend ur sensibilities. ...?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Can any one of us really think in the u.s.a. we can find bliss through a lady friend...or whatever u want to call it....I didn't want to offend ur sensibilities. ...?
Sure, if her interest level is high enough. But, I wouldn't look to women for happiness.
 

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But... Dycks will find pvzzy and vice versa...but since we all have it so easy in the states compared to the globe. I'm just wondering if men and women are more in tune with their true self's, selves,...

In a big metropolitan place, the latest tweet or screenshot if what the general young population experiences....

Maybe its greed I'm upset about, but I'm just a sideways kid in an upright upside down world

#sideways#copyrights
 

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But... Dycks will find pvzzy and vice versa...but since we all have it so easy in the states compared to the globe. I'm just wondering if men and women are more in tune with their true self's, selves,...

In a big metropolitan place, the latest tweet or screenshot if what the general young population experiences....

Maybe its greed I'm upset about, but I'm just a sideways kid in an upright upside down world

#sideways#copyrights
It's a dark time in our history, and it's only going to get darker. Greed is commonplace. So is pride/arrogance.

Best to focus on the positives.
 
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I understand what you're getting at.. US morals and integrity amongst relationships and love are definitely some of the worst in the world I would think just because of how much capabilities are open to us for cheating and how we promote the idea of having sex with lots of people as well as glamourize the promiscuity of sexual affairs........

But yeah you can find love. That's a given. Love is a connection that is very hard to explain. There's been documentaries on it.. with science behidn it and all that.. The connection of love is something really deep and anyone can find it.

The problem with most people is we force ourselves to thinking we're in love with someone when really its just infatuation
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I understand what you're getting at.. US morals and integrity amongst relationships and love are definitely some of the worst in the world I would think just because of how much capabilities are open to us for cheating and how we promote the idea of having sex with lots of people as well as glamourize the promiscuity of sexual affairs........

But yeah you can find love. That's a given. Love is a connection that is very hard to explain. There's been documentaries on it.. with science behidn it and all that.. The connection of love is something really deep and anyone can find it.

The problem with most people is we force ourselves to thinking we're in love with someone when really its just infatuation
Sex and strong lust and infatuation have folks thinking it's love. Love is something much deeper.
 
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Sex and strong lust and infatuation have folks thinking it's love. Love is something much deeper.
Yep, right on. I seen a documentary about love between people with mental disorders/differences such as aspergers and autism.. and it's definitely something very deep
 

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Sex and strong lust and infatuation have folks thinking it's love. Love is something much deeper.
Yep, right on. I seen a documentary about love between people with mental disorders/differences such as aspergers and autism.. and it's definitely something very deep
Which documentary was that? Sounds interesting, I want to watch it!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you mean short term, then yes, you can find bliss through a woman e.g. that moment when you finally get your nut off inside her or on her t!ts or a$$.

As for long term, no. You can't find happiness or bliss through a woman. The nagging will increase, the sh*t tests will only amplify if not get worse, once kids are factored into the equation, it's game over.
 
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