MatureDJ
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Lol, I don't think you get it. Those "old farts" are looking for easy, humble, young puzzy. Once that same puzzy hits American soil unmarried, the humble and easiness goes down the drain real quick!bmxcetera said:If you really want them bad enough, take a trip to Spartanburg, SC. There were plenty of Cambodian females as I recall. Citizenship already attained.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
hope is a dangerous thing...men may actually wake up and act on itevan12 said:may be it is pressure from US to close more doors on their men
Yeah OK coming from someone in AMSTERDAMHoneyHitter said:Lol, I don't think you get it. Those "old farts" are looking for easy, humble, young puzzy. Once that same puzzy hits American soil unmarried, the humble and easiness goes down the drain real quick!
There's a huge difference between a wealthy old fart and a poor old fart. Sometimes the difference is only a matter of location.
Cool I'm probably getting relocated to BMW Spartanburg, so I'm gonna check it out next yearbmxcetera said:If you really want them bad enough, take a trip to Spartanburg, SC. There were plenty of Cambodian females as I recall. Citizenship already attained.
Lol, been living here since my late teens dude.bmxcetera said:Yeah OK coming from someone in AMSTERDAM
And you're still making dumbas$ blanket statements thinking that they also apply to southeastern Asians migrating into western society. Did you catch on to the fact that it referenced the rough pasts that they experienced as a whole in Cambodia and Vietnam? I've never had one of these SE Asian women treat me with disrespect here, in fact they are some of the friendliest individuals I've dealt with, ever. Having a piss-poor command of the English language, wearing rags to high school/community college and still living in squalid conditions in the U.S. barely made them seem like wannabe Prima Donnas to me...and I've lived here far longer than fifteen years, in four major U.S. cities and have traveled to half the states and counting. Not to mention I've grown up in a family that came to this country from SE Asia. For fvck's sake, the Hmong people that migrated to NC after the Vietnam Conflict never bothered learning English and shafted their own potential growth as a result.HoneyHitter said:Lol, been living here since my late teens dude.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.