MatureDJ
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Cambodia bans old foreign farts from marrying citizens!
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
****ers are hogging all the good breast milk :box:
HoneyHitter
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Lol, I don't think you get it. Those "old farts" are looking for easy, humble, young puzzy. Once that same puzzy hits American soil unmarried, the humble and easiness goes down the drain real quick!bmxcetera said:
There's a huge difference between a wealthy old fart and a poor old fart. Sometimes the difference is only a matter of location.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
hope is a dangerous thing...men may actually wake up and act on itevan12 said:
Imagine all the men paying alimony and child support just left the country for greener
pasturesall in one year..
gone!
No more taxes no more child support payouts nothing.....
where would all these divorced women get their money to go shopping?
the economy would collapse :crackup:
HoneyHitter
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Lol, been living here since my late teens dude.bmxcetera said:
And you're still making dumbas$ blanket statements thinking that they also apply to southeastern Asians migrating into western society. Did you catch on to the fact that it referenced the rough pasts that they experienced as a whole in Cambodia and Vietnam? I've never had one of these SE Asian women treat me with disrespect here, in fact they are some of the friendliest individuals I've dealt with, ever. Having a piss-poor command of the English language, wearing rags to high school/community college and still living in squalid conditions in the U.S. barely made them seem like wannabe Prima Donnas to me...and I've lived here far longer than fifteen years, in four major U.S. cities and have traveled to half the states and counting. Not to mention I've grown up in a family that came to this country from SE Asia. For fvck's sake, the Hmong people that migrated to NC after the Vietnam Conflict never bothered learning English and shafted their own potential growth as a result.HoneyHitter said:
It's not as if some 50-year-old 400 lb. version of Burroughs is going overseas and plucking a girl from Stockholm. It's places like Phnom Penh, Chiang Mai and Saigon the article is referencing. The main point of the article is that the Cambodian gov't (and soon Vietnam) is putting restrictions on American men marrying their women so as to combat HUMAN TRAFFICKING. That's a very petty restriction and I agree with the OP. In fact, they would be better off placing sanctions on The Netherlands with all the sex-slaves they sell you all in Amsterdam :moon:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Down Low,
"Every Cambodian woman -- or her US-born daughter -- I ever met in the US was a wh0re with a side job as a wife, masseuse, nail polisher, or waitress."Maybe I could turn a blind eye to that,but what I can't forgive is a complete lack of any conversation,or interest in anything but themselves,their beauty,their telephone and shopping!
"Every Cambodian woman -- or her US-born daughter -- I ever met in the US was a wh0re with a side job as a wife, masseuse, nail polisher, or waitress."Maybe I could turn a blind eye to that,but what I can't forgive is a complete lack of any conversation,or interest in anything but themselves,their beauty,their telephone and shopping!