MatureDJ
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Cambodia bans old foreign farts from marrying citizens!
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
****ers are hogging all the good breast milk :box:
HoneyHitter
Senior Don Juan
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Lol, I don't think you get it. Those "old farts" are looking for easy, humble, young puzzy. Once that same puzzy hits American soil unmarried, the humble and easiness goes down the drain real quick!bmxcetera said:
There's a huge difference between a wealthy old fart and a poor old fart. Sometimes the difference is only a matter of location.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
hope is a dangerous thing...men may actually wake up and act on itevan12 said:
Imagine all the men paying alimony and child support just left the country for greener
pasturesall in one year..
gone!
No more taxes no more child support payouts nothing.....
where would all these divorced women get their money to go shopping?
the economy would collapse :crackup:
HoneyHitter
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Lol, been living here since my late teens dude.bmxcetera said:
And you're still making dumbas$ blanket statements thinking that they also apply to southeastern Asians migrating into western society. Did you catch on to the fact that it referenced the rough pasts that they experienced as a whole in Cambodia and Vietnam? I've never had one of these SE Asian women treat me with disrespect here, in fact they are some of the friendliest individuals I've dealt with, ever. Having a piss-poor command of the English language, wearing rags to high school/community college and still living in squalid conditions in the U.S. barely made them seem like wannabe Prima Donnas to me...and I've lived here far longer than fifteen years, in four major U.S. cities and have traveled to half the states and counting. Not to mention I've grown up in a family that came to this country from SE Asia. For fvck's sake, the Hmong people that migrated to NC after the Vietnam Conflict never bothered learning English and shafted their own potential growth as a result.HoneyHitter said:
It's not as if some 50-year-old 400 lb. version of Burroughs is going overseas and plucking a girl from Stockholm. It's places like Phnom Penh, Chiang Mai and Saigon the article is referencing. The main point of the article is that the Cambodian gov't (and soon Vietnam) is putting restrictions on American men marrying their women so as to combat HUMAN TRAFFICKING. That's a very petty restriction and I agree with the OP. In fact, they would be better off placing sanctions on The Netherlands with all the sex-slaves they sell you all in Amsterdam :moon:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Down Low,
"Every Cambodian woman -- or her US-born daughter -- I ever met in the US was a wh0re with a side job as a wife, masseuse, nail polisher, or waitress."Maybe I could turn a blind eye to that,but what I can't forgive is a complete lack of any conversation,or interest in anything but themselves,their beauty,their telephone and shopping!
"Every Cambodian woman -- or her US-born daughter -- I ever met in the US was a wh0re with a side job as a wife, masseuse, nail polisher, or waitress."Maybe I could turn a blind eye to that,but what I can't forgive is a complete lack of any conversation,or interest in anything but themselves,their beauty,their telephone and shopping!